so there is this guy that i like and he is in 7 while im in 8
i really like him and he said that i am pretty, but he has a girlfriend
and i really want to go out with him and he is super hot, but what do i do????
2006-12-11 14:44:13 · 21 answers · asked by sweetie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
go meet more guys in ur life. don't set urself on just one dude. or you could kill his gf
2006-12-11 14:46:05 · answer #1 · answered by xckid62 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well....
You can't base it all on looks. Just because he is "super hot" doesn't mean the relationship will work. Second of all, you're playing with fire if he has a girlfriend. Try to get to know him as a friend first. Especially if your only in 7th grade. You have a whole lot of time let in Middle School, trust me. And high school is a whole 'nother story, so take it one step at a time. Don't go busting up anyones relationship. Just be friends first, and go from there.
2006-12-11 22:48:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
seems like you're going through exactly what I went through a couple of months ago. I liked a freshie and I'm a sophomore...and he's really cute. Don't push. First of all you're older than him, so you already intimidate him. Find out if he really likes you before you make a move. sometimes the most gorgeous and sweet guys end up being players. and this one already seems like trouble if he likes you and an another girl. so basically, do your background research subtely and then make a move.
2006-12-11 22:49:03 · answer #3 · answered by Siri 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even though looks are what first attract us to people, and him telling you that you are pretty feels really good...you gotta think about the fact that he's trying to get with you when he has a girlfriend himself. If you two start dating, is he going to do the same thing to you? I'm not saying don't go for it...i'm just saying watch your feelings.
2006-12-11 22:47:32 · answer #4 · answered by good luck 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should flirt a bit maybe. Don't make a move and maybe let people know that you are interested. Guys don't mind dating older girls im in grade 8 dating a girl in 9.
Good Luck
2006-12-11 22:47:49 · answer #5 · answered by jcprs69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you wait until he's single because that would be unfair to his girlfriend, then wait for him to make any further moves. I wouldn't suggest trying to make any more moves on your part if he already thinks your pretty. you can flirt but, don't get carried away with it. I think that would be a little bit of a *itch mood, but hey it's your perrogative.
2006-12-11 22:47:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only time will tell...your still young you have a whole life ahead of you, remain friends, throw him signals and let things fall in place...you'll be amazed!
2006-12-11 22:48:29 · answer #7 · answered by Brad 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They may start to look good to you now; but remember, they still have coodies. Stay away from boys until after college. Do your homework.
2006-12-11 22:46:39 · answer #8 · answered by AnswerGuy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he could be leading you on,if he has a gurlfriend,im sure she wouldnt want someone interfering in their relationship so stay away from him till they break up ... but not all gawjess guys are nice ... i think hes leasing u on,dont take notice of him!! good luk =]
2006-12-11 22:48:15 · answer #9 · answered by janie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just tell him how you feel about him. Maybe he feels the same, but is unsure to dump his girlfriend, becuase he doesnt know if you like him back. Just tell him how you feel and give it time.
2006-12-11 22:47:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen child, hes got a girl.. move on you'll find another loser that will compliment you and you can fall in love again. simple :)
2006-12-11 22:46:41 · answer #11 · answered by Fashionista 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋