I have liked him for 3 years, but have let on in some small ways that I like him, but he never really figured it out. Now, even though I am still trying he will be dating this other girl by the end of next week...I don't know what to do, and I don't just want this to kinda pass me by, like I really like him, but need help knowing what to do next, thanks for any answers:):)<3
2006-12-11 14:14:43 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
okay, i went through something similar couple months ago (by the way... that guy and i have been datin for 3weeks now.) alright so when i heard that him and that girl were going to go out i was like gaw! no i dont want that to happen!! but then i had this thought. if you already know that he likes this girl you want to get her out of the way before you date him. I knew that if i let them go out that it would end and then i would have him all too myself and no distractions. but you gotta make sure that you always look better than she does so that he will question if he wants what he has or if something better is in front of him. good luck
2006-12-11 14:25:45 · answer #1 · answered by summer girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hang in there !
I know how you feel, I have liked this guy who also happens to be my best friend for about 4 years now. I also have not told him and have been fearing your kind of problem.
I am not sure what to tell you other than to hang in there and know that you are not alone there are other girls out there going through the same kind of thing.
I hope everything works out for you.
Good Luck ! :)
2006-12-11 22:28:08 · answer #2 · answered by Alley 9 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have one last chance, go for it. Tell him. You might as well. Worst possibility is that he goes out with the girl he was going to be dating, which is what would happen anyway. Might as well get it all off your chest -- you'll feel better, know you tried, and you may even snag yourself the guy. ;]
2006-12-11 22:21:04 · answer #3 · answered by kachelsachel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I assume he doesn't know you like him. The only way to find out is ask. Are you sure he likes you? How is he going to date the other girl if he didn't ask her?
2006-12-11 22:18:38 · answer #4 · answered by mich 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him. Tell himexactly how u feel. He probably won't get it til u tell him. So come right out and tell him now before it's to late.
2006-12-11 22:21:40 · answer #5 · answered by chinquittia_john18 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hurry up and tell him how you truly feel about him! you won't get anywhere unless you tell him. that's definitely the first step.
2006-12-11 22:23:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋