I have dated this guy a couple of times. Each time though someone else has called and he replied sarcastically if it was another guy and I told him the truth (it was) On our second date when the phone wrang I didint answer it but shortly after he said he had things to do and said you have things to do and i said no I dont and he said yes you do. I asked him to give me a call and he said you call me I dont want to interupt your life. I called him yesterday and asked if I could see him and he said he had to work on his snowmobiles and was busy. Is it me or is this a lame excuse
2006-12-11 14:11:33 · 9 answers · asked by COCOA 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes He is blowing you off. He is obviously not interested. He probably doesn't want to be with someone who answers calls from other guys while on a date with him. That is pretty rude and I don't blame him. Just remember that next time your on a date and your phone rings.
2006-12-11 14:23:03 · answer #1 · answered by Megan D 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The use of cell phones on a date or in a meeting is just rude. If you have to have your phone with you turn it off unless you need to use it. He is probably sick and tired of competing with a phone when he was trying to get to know you. The "I don't want to interrupt your life" should have given you the clue. I would leave him alone...it sounds like you blew it big time.
2006-12-11 22:18:33 · answer #2 · answered by Barbiq 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When you are on a date...put phone on silent ring!!!! Or off. I don't blame him for getting mad or not wanting to see you again. You showed him that he wasn't important enough for you to turn off the phone. Maybe next time you have a date, you will.
2006-12-11 22:16:19 · answer #3 · answered by mich 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it sounds like he is...but only because he thought you were blowing him off (because of the other guys calling). Guys can have such fragile egos. If he doesn't come around, forget about him and find someone with more confidence! :)
2006-12-11 22:18:36 · answer #4 · answered by chickadee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, he's blowing you off. From now on, turn your phone off when you're on a date. it's rude to be taking phone calls.
2006-12-11 22:15:28 · answer #5 · answered by Jess H 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, you are getting the major blow off. Why chase someone that isn't obviously gaga over you? Don't you deserve that? I think we all do. Never settle for less than the best!
2006-12-11 22:14:36 · answer #6 · answered by I_Love_Life! 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
he has a problem.... ether he has no confidence, or he knows that you can get better than him... and he can't help him self showing that he is a looser
2006-12-11 22:18:06 · answer #7 · answered by mimi 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
AND YOU REALLY DON'T KNOW THE ANSWER TO THIS?
WOA WE AREN'T THE BRIGHTEST CRAYON IN THE BOX, ARE WE?
2006-12-11 22:13:35 · answer #8 · answered by dragonfly 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
uh YEAH..
2006-12-11 22:18:19 · answer #9 · answered by Little Bit the Ferret 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋