me and my guy had sex on the first date. from then on we were inseparable, and i pretty much stayed at his place everyday until 3 months later when we got our first apartment together. a year later we are married, but i can't help but think it all happened way too fast. we are happy together most of the time and i love him with all my heart. i guess i'm afraid he'll regress and want to go back to being single or cheat on me because he is unhappy but doesn't want to hurt me. he is 23 and i am 25. what do you think?
2006-12-11 14:10:50 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You did everything out of order and feel guilty and insecure about it. You're married now. Continue to get to know eachother and seek common interests and ways to connect. Grow together. I'm not sure why anyone would want to start over.
2006-12-11 14:17:21 · answer #1 · answered by AnswerGuy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage is a sacred bond if he regress then that is his choice but you should not bring doubts into the relationship . Marriage is constant work it never ends just like any relationship. Love can never happen to fast people who have been dating longer than that when married they divorced.
2006-12-11 22:16:45 · answer #2 · answered by godsnoriel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It takes a lot for a guy to ask you to marry him he saw potential and if he didnt feel he could committ he wouldnt have asked you... The average person gets married around that age.... or later.... Dont look at it as a mistake fear is the opposite of faith have faith in your marriage and it will work out pray there s a lot of temptation out there and women who prey on married men but. once you have faith and true love nothing else matters.
2006-12-11 22:18:37 · answer #3 · answered by zizi4me22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is he unhappy? That's the issue. And if so, why?
You seem to have gone very quickly into this committment thing. But then again that works for some people.
TA the base of this is your insecurity in him. You need to talk to him about how you feel; chewing on it won't make it go away.
2006-12-11 22:15:33 · answer #4 · answered by Wonderpants 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you two are happy, then why worry? If you worry, then you'll suspect he's cheating when most likely he is not. Just enjoy the present time and take each day one day at a time!
2006-12-11 22:17:12 · answer #5 · answered by L♥G 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex is not a strong basis for a relationship.
You need to attempt to find out if you two have
any common ground.
2006-12-11 22:14:28 · answer #6 · answered by happy_southernlady 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your predictions are totally accurate. What you do about it is up to you.
2006-12-11 22:16:03 · answer #7 · answered by JudasHero 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop making problems if there aren't any!
2006-12-11 22:13:50 · answer #8 · answered by mich 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like you should stop worrying and enjoy yourself
2006-12-11 22:13:38 · answer #9 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋