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im really shy and i have guy trouble what can i do to get guys attention or like what can i say when i approach a guy?

2006-12-11 14:10:41 · 19 answers · asked by slanted eye cutiepie 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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The first thing you need to NOT do is say anything to the guy. Let him approach you. By doing this, this will make the guy feel that you are not throwing yourself at him, which makes you look more like a "lady". The only dilemma is, you have to find a way to make the guy come to you and start the conversation(s). So, be sure to keep yourself pretty and beautiful at all times, both inside and out because a nice looking face begins to look ugly if the personality is out of tune. Once you have your sex appeal down, then you wait for the guy to approach you and you take it from there.

2006-12-11 14:17:28 · answer #1 · answered by lildiesel2001 2 · 0 0

No body "needs" a bf. Come on now. you're better than that. Let life flow, be yourself and you'll find your special person soon enough. Better yet, he'll find you first. If you want attention you have to decide what type of attention you want. If you want a quality guy, don't sleep around/be a hoe, don't dress half naked, have goals, do well in school, take care of yourself(eat right, exercise,no frutos corn syrup products), and make sure you look your best without looking hoochy. Get hobbies and be nice to people, not rude or mean for no reason. Guys will be drawn to you like a magnet. Don't break the law. But if you want guys just to want to get into your pants, give you a disease or treat you like dirt, then the type of attention you want you'll have to just act like those 'girls gone wild' girls and that will be that. Good luck! You'll be fine. :)

2006-12-11 22:17:32 · answer #2 · answered by Violet Wisdom 2 · 0 0

Well if you really mean you need a boyfriend soon and aren't picky well here are a few places to try, a comic book store, a collectible card game event, a computer game event. I am fairly certain that most of the people you will find at those events or places will be male and not have a girl fiend.

2006-12-11 22:17:50 · answer #3 · answered by William S 3 · 0 0

Be yourself, find yourself among friends, with some of theirs, just say hello, introduce yourself. It's easy, the first time is always the most difficult. There are plenty of guys out there, do not be afraid of making a fool of yourself. EVERYBODY has done that. Perhaps that will endear yourself to that person.

2006-12-11 22:18:05 · answer #4 · answered by zman70 2 · 0 0

First you have to learn to be happy on your own. No one ever needs a boyfriend or girlfriend to make their life complete...Once you are happy with yourself your confidence will go up and talking to guys will be alot easier!

2006-12-11 22:13:36 · answer #5 · answered by Barbiq 6 · 0 0

Most guys need a visual stimuli something about you have to attract them do this and guys will be coming up to you all day. Or you can be bold and go up to them and introduce yourself and ask for his number

2006-12-11 22:19:10 · answer #6 · answered by PhillyDude 4 · 0 1

Just start out the usual how are you kinda things. Have a casual talk about whatever and be relaxed and be your normal self.

2006-12-11 22:13:47 · answer #7 · answered by silver_monkey 2 · 0 0

If you're lucky, you might wind up with a boyfriend completly by accident, like me! Just be you infront of a guy you like, and maybe he'll like you. It might work, but don't take my word, I fell in love with my boyfriend COMPLETELY by accident.

2006-12-11 22:14:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

say "hey how you doing?'' but you should get to know someone first im shy too but idk can't really answer because when i see this guy i hide my face in my sweater like my sweater sleeves. but im going through trouble with this right now so i can't really answer ...=/

2006-12-11 22:13:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

guys don't usually do this kind of stuff themselves. You just need to be confident about yourself and then every one will be attracted to you.

2006-12-11 22:16:45 · answer #10 · answered by Francesca 2 · 0 0

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