Doesnt any of the ladies here feel uncomfortable when men check you out all the time? It annoys me and i feel that they have no lives. Am i right?
2006-12-11 14:09:35 · 29 answers · asked by Lala 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Try being quite overweight and wishing just once a guy would check you out!
Quit whining.
Sue
2006-12-11 14:11:00 · answer #1 · answered by newbiegranny 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I experience this often as well, and it is annoying. It makes me feel bad sometimes. However, after talking to my husband and a male friend of mine, I realize this is what guys do. This is just something that men having been doing since the beginning of time and will continue to do. Men are visual. They are stimulated a great deal by seeing. Women need much more than that. As women, we just kind of have to deal with it. But I totally agree with you. It's unfair that if we leave our house looking nice, there are consequences. Many guys feel that's why we 'dress a certain way' or whatever. You and I know that's not true....for most women I'd guess. Just ignore them. That's what I do and it's the best advice I could give.
2006-12-11 14:15:38 · answer #2 · answered by zimmiesgrl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be thankful that you are attractive enough that men do check you out... would you rather be not attractive and still be here complaining that nobody pays attention to you. There are a lot more things in this world you can be thankful for then complaining because your attractive. You've got to be kidding me. You should feel good about yourself when people notice you. You're a people magnet!! You're beautiful!!!! You one of the few that can walk into a room and people notice you.....Be grateful!!!!
2006-12-11 14:13:45 · answer #3 · answered by danny_austin4 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If they are gawking yes, it makes me very uncomfortable, especially if unecessary derogatory remarks are also coming out of their mouths. If they just glance and smile that is fine and is quite flattering. However, undressing with the eyes is quite rude and a huge turn-off. Also if the guy is much older and rather creepy looking and his mouth is dragging the floor with slobber coming out of it, it makes me want to gag. Some guys will check out ANY woman, it could be a female dog and they would be like "OHHH 8 **** instead of just 2!" lol, seriously. It really just depends who it is and how they are doing it.
2006-12-11 14:22:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know your plight. guys are always checking me out whether i'm dressed casually or more provocatively. it can get annoying but it's not like i believe they have no lives. i just feel sorry that about 99% of them have no chance in hell of getting with me. it really burns me up if a guy is looking at me and his wife and five kids are with him. i just feel that if i wanted to be looked at so much, i can find a stage somewhere and have an audience gawk at me, otherwise, don't look at me. but don't get me wrong, i enjoy the fact that attractivenss is the least of worries in my book.
2006-12-11 14:25:53 · answer #5 · answered by Mecca 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-30 07:11:19 · answer #6 · answered by belis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually, I kind of like knowing that guys find me attractive, and I definitely like getting the opportunity to tell them off for being such perverted losers. I definitely hate it when they make suggestive comments and are blatantly checking out certain body parts. Don't we have FACES?
2006-12-11 15:21:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You provoke our glances. Most of us know we have no chance but in our heads we would like to believe we do. I have a great idea for you next time you see something provocative weather it be a traffic accident, streaker, or tv star, try not to look. It's very hard.
2006-12-11 14:16:38 · answer #8 · answered by manbearpig 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, at times b/c many pass on whwat might be a good woman b/c of the intial physical apperance
2006-12-11 14:19:11 · answer #9 · answered by nene 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't mind when hot guys do it. But old Mexican weirdos on the other hand annoy the crap out of me. [I live in Texas..and there a LOT of Mexican freaks here..I'm not racist..they always whistle at me and honk at me and my friends when we're walking to the 711 near us.]
2006-12-11 14:16:41 · answer #10 · answered by nicolebrahbooyah 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋