Here's the deal... My last long relationship ended horribly so I decided to choose to be single until I developed my career and acheived my goals. Now that I have done that, I feel that I have "lost my touch". I'm completely at a loss when it comes to the dating scene. I have a lot of great qualities that women compliment me on all the time, but I still feel like I'm begging when I ask for a number or date. I am confident and attractive, but when I go to ask, I start to fall apart. I blame it on my ex because she made me feel worthless, and she was model material. Can someone please help me?!
2006-12-11 13:54:46 · 7 answers · asked by youdontneedtoknowme 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I really dont think that you need to blame her anymore every time you do you put her on a pedistal like she is the queen of all the women . all men are not mac daddies and suave like you think
as a matter of fact the way that you are is very attractive
now the only thing is that you have to feel that way not just for appearence but deep inside she did not ruin anything for you you will go through and handful of bad one before you get to the good ones just ask for a date with confidence make sure you ask proudly but yet humble would you like to have dinner with me or a movie or coffee what ever to get her attention just do it
2006-12-11 14:04:20 · answer #1 · answered by slpry L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man... you must be fat. You are not confident. And not attractive.
Because I'm confident and attractive and I never beg for numbers. I tell them to give me there number and they do cause they know if they dont they'll miss out on me and some other girl will be blessed with my company.
2006-12-11 21:59:21 · answer #2 · answered by zerohour 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to regian the confidence and self esteem in your self first.....try a couple of things new with the girls ya like. Ask them out in a unique way. Impress the girls and impress your self you will be amazed on what you may find out about your self. Why do you feel you have lost "the touch" have you? Or do you only think you have?
2006-12-11 21:59:06 · answer #3 · answered by cutie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alright music man, if you are as confident and attractive as you say, you don't need to beg. Just ask. Us women go nuts when in game for a guy.
Just say, hey i feel a connection with you, and i was wondering if you wanna go out with me sometime? (if she says yes.) So would it be alright for me to get your number so i can call you?
simple as that.
2006-12-11 22:02:21 · answer #4 · answered by Amanda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to ask to go out on a date. Begging is when you get a NO and keep on asking and asking. Relax...if you get a no even a few times, it will be easier to ask the next time.
2006-12-11 21:59:52 · answer #5 · answered by Ginger 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its call your emotions if you can't ask for a phone number or something without falling apart then as much as you say you don't like your ex it seems like you do have feels for her
2006-12-11 22:00:29 · answer #6 · answered by believerchick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u should relax and let da gurls do da flirting
2006-12-11 21:57:29 · answer #7 · answered by Ree Ree 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋