She is constantly nagging me and will not clean the house like she use to. I like to drink beers with my friends at the house and she is nagging and complaining so much it is embarrassing. She use to prepare a snack plate with chips and now nothing..She has got to leave..Help me find the PC way to kick her out.
2006-12-11 13:54:36 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I would like to do it before the holidays get under way and the football games start..that way there is no interuptions and scenes..
2006-12-11 14:14:32 · update #1
I am thinking about telling her she can stay throughout the holidays if she will continue to clean and help cater the football parties..If not she is OUT the door by the holidays..
2006-12-11 16:22:35 · update #2
And she will have to learn to pull her weight around the house..I cannot do everything here..
2006-12-11 16:34:26 · update #3
Get rid of her as soon as you can mate, once she drops her bundle it will be twice as hard to get her out. just take her to a halfway house or somewhere and deny its your kid, stuff it lifes too short to be landed with a girl who wont pull her weight.
2006-12-11 16:24:49 · answer #1 · answered by bbbwwwppp b 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
While you may not like to hear this remember she is your GIRLFRIEND, not your maid. Most of you complaints seem to be that she is not doing the maid tasks. If your relationship is nothing more than the baby and her cleaning, creating snack plates and her being quiet, then it is time to be serious about your future together.
But that it is your future in her. Do you really want to end it due to her not doing the cleaning around the house? What did you honestly think that it would be like when you have a little one around your house? Maybe both of you should go for counseling and see if you both are ready to be parents. If you are not ready to step into the role of parent you should be honest with her. Also, even if you break up, remember the child, and make sure she has a SAFE PLACE to stay before you "kick her out."
Don't worry about the PC way..what you're really asking is the fatherly way of kicking your child out...
2006-12-11 14:13:15 · answer #2 · answered by Lil SW 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm going to go out on a limb here but I think you have got to be kidding. I'm finding it really hard to believe that this is a serious question. If you aren't I'm sure that we'll all be saying our prayers for you.
It sounds like the only reason that you want her to leave is that she isn't cooking and making snacks for you. If that is the case, spend some cash and hire someone to clean for you. Ask whoever you have to pick up your beer for your "man's night," have them pick up a Lunchable for you.
The best thing you could do for this pregnant woman (if she does exist) is to tell her that you are not mature enough to be a father. Help her find somewhere else to live and let her know you will financially support the child. It's obvious you aren't mature enough for anything else.
Grow up! Get a life! Take care of the life you are bringing into our world! Let her go!
2006-12-11 14:22:56 · answer #3 · answered by Mom2six 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
This is very selfish of you i'm sorry right now she really needs you im her life and you wanna kick her out its called hormones and you as a man should be able to deal with it at a mature level you as a man will never feel what it is like to be pregnant your whole body changes you cant come home and clean the house for once? This is the mother to your un born child you're thinking about kicking out would you throw your child out on the street are you that heartless
2006-12-11 14:17:46 · answer #4 · answered by crrousey 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I am sooo disgusted with you right now i dont even know where to begin! Your poor girlfriend is seven and a half months pregnant with your child, and all you can do is sit there and complain about her. not only are her hormones going crazy, shes got to worry about her new baby coming which she probably is gonna hafta raise alone, making sure she has everything she needs, and a house to run. as if that isnt enough stress already, shes got to put up with your sorry *** and all your pathetic friends. Why should she be cattering to you and your friends, shes not the hired help. what do you do for her, besides talk about her behind her back with your friends. She probably 'nags' you because your always sitting on your lazy *** drinking beer and watching tv. If i were you id be embarrassed to be talking about her the way you are, you should be bending over backward for her, cattering to her every need. Not trying to find a way to kick her out right before christmas just because you wanna watch the game with the guys. Its not easy to care for a lazy boyfriend while you are pregnant. You are very lucky she doesnt leave your *** and take her baby with her. You dont deserve to have that child in your life. If you cared for her at all you would prepare snacks before all the guys came over, i mean you slobs are the ones who are choking the **** down anyways. And a real man would tell his girlfriend to enjoy a nice evening of peace n quiet at the house having a nice warm bath while he either A) tidies up the house and makes a nice dinner for her, B) calls all of her friends and suggests an all girls movie n pizza night, or C) orders her some yummy takeout and goes over to a friends house to watch the game. What you should do is forget about kicking her out and going out and buying her and the baby nice christmas presents and showing her how much you really love them. i mean you helped her in to this situation, she didnt get pregnant on her own. You should be ashamed at the way you have treated her. wise up and take notice at what you have in front of you, . . . before she wisens up to you and leaves you.
2006-12-11 15:41:46 · answer #5 · answered by Just Me 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Instead of just kicking her out why dont you try to sit down and talk to her about the problems that your having.
If you honestly want out of the relationship tell her you need some space and either you leave and let her stay. Or atleast make sure she has a place to go.
Be responsible tho and take care of your baby tho regardless of what you decide to do. good luck.
2006-12-11 14:03:08 · answer #6 · answered by hopefloats 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-18 03:39:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
age plays a factor on both parts.you still being selfish and her lack of doing. when women are pregant they become overly emotional. if she is nagging you take in consideration,what she is asking for. being pregant takes a lot of energy from the body. it has something to do with chemical enbalance from the baby. now since you don't want her around.It also means you did not want childern. you are throwing both people away. And there is no perfect way todo that.
2006-12-11 17:32:35 · answer #8 · answered by honestly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am a guy and would love to have a gf pregnant or not i cant imagine that u r that ****** up in the head that ur friends and football and her making u snack plates is worth breaking up over and to do it before the holidays wow that just impresses the hell out of me its guys like u that cause women to stero type all guys *** jerks and assholes and as being selfish u in my opinion dont deserve to have her and if i knew her i would encourage her to finda more loving and caring man to love and care for her and her unborn child it saddens me to think that u r part of the male species i hope u get wise soon to ur unreasonable expectations and last but not least dont be so damn lazy and do things for ur self
2006-12-11 14:44:00 · answer #9 · answered by txstudxxx2003 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's time for you to grow up... if you know this relationship isn't going to make it, then there;s no point in making each other's lives miserable. Her priority now is herself and the baby, That's not going to change once the baby's born.
How about helping her find a place where she and the baby can live.
2006-12-11 14:18:39 · answer #10 · answered by naenae0011 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You, my friend, sound like an irresponsible low-life. So it's all about you...clean my house, put up with and wait on me and my beer buddies, become a non-person but be there to meet my every need.
This message is for your girlfriend: GET AWAY FROM THAT TRASHY BOYFRIEND BEFORE YOU BRING THIS CHILD INTO A WORLD WITH SUCH AN UNCARING, INCONSIDERATE 'SO CALLED' MAN.
Go to court now, see that he pays all expenses incurred with this pregnancy, make sure he pays child support through the courts and make sure his visitation with the child is supervised.
Back to low-life: you are repulsive & disqusting!.
2006-12-11 14:11:17 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋