My boyfriend and I have been going out for a few months and so far everything has been going great even though we live about 2hours away from each other. I knew that before he met me he used to go on match.com and had a profile. He was honest about that and I once found emails in his inbox that he still got from match.com. However, today I find that his profile is still up on match.com. Everything on his profile is true and accurate, however why is his profile still on when he is in a relationship. Plus, his profile byline is "This site is for rent"..what does that mean. Plus, it says he has logged on to his profile within the last 2 weeks.....HELP!
2006-12-11 13:52:35 · 12 answers · asked by Louisa C 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
personally, i would just ask him about it, the worst thing that is going to happen is that he tells you he has been looking for someone else. its not like its really hidden anyways, the profile is on the WORLD wide web and all..... and maybe the site for rent thing just means he doesnt need it anymore, the only way to find out is to talk to him, and if it doesnt go the way you want it to, then it wasnt meant to be. good luck
2006-12-11 13:56:44 · answer #1 · answered by stephanie f 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He logged on to check the last time that you logged on. He posted a question about this yesterday on Yahoo! Answers. But right now - he doesn't know that you know. So I suggest you make him a little jealous by putting something spicy in your profile. Keep turning the screws, and eventually he will be like putty in your hands.
2006-12-11 21:59:39 · answer #2 · answered by rrbowker2002 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may not be cheating...He night just be addicted or keeping his options open if things dont work between you and him. I would not like this one little bit. Ask him why it is still up...say you are not happy with it and see how things go. If he is really into you he will withdraw his profile. If he does not then I guess that tells you somethin about him
2006-12-11 21:58:41 · answer #3 · answered by JadeNicole 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So what if he's on a website. He's dating you currently isn't he??? It's only been a couple of months and it sounds like you're already insecure about yourself. Are you having doubts about being with him already???? Stop focusing on the negative and celebrate the positive. Jealousy and insecurity are a waste of time and if you really don't like it then don't give him a chance to cheat and dump him now. If you can't keep his attention and you're worrying about if he's going to cheat then he probably will. Men don't stay with women that doubt themselves they are drawn to women with confidence and you're not there yet.
2006-12-11 22:01:21 · answer #4 · answered by danny_austin4 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is trying to make sure no stones have been left unturned. You will have to turn his head towards you, really win him over and if you find that when you ask about this and he is dishonest, you will have to let him go. But you better ask about it. Maybe he's just not for you.
2006-12-11 21:55:04 · answer #5 · answered by Not In Kansas? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
darling,
hes afraid things wont workout, so he needs a backup plan just in case. but yea this site in for rent just means that hes with someone right now...and he uses cheesy waays to say that its temporary, but could be permanent. Also he could have a subscription, so he cant get rid of their junk mail.....dont worry, trust him more...talk to him
2006-12-11 21:59:39 · answer #6 · answered by as 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
confront him about the situation and see what he says and say that it makes u uncomftable. but maybe he still has it on because u have to pay for the stuff and he dont want to let his money go to waist. just ask.
2006-12-11 21:59:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him. Tell him you deleted your profile, and see if he says the same about his.
2006-12-11 21:54:54 · answer #8 · answered by Rugir 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He is still looking around he is not serious in settling down
2006-12-11 21:56:05 · answer #9 · answered by princess ana j 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well what where YOU doing on that website?
2006-12-11 21:55:41 · answer #10 · answered by Little Bit the Ferret 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋