I fantasize that I should stand naked before my friends; that my wife should strip before my friends; that my friends should watch our sex games; that our sex games should be photographed and videographed; that my friends should get tempted to have sex with my wife; and that my wife too should get tempted to have sex with some of them; that my wife should have an intercourse with a friend of mine one day and that I should watch it and so on. Is it a normal fantasy or something is wrong with me?
2006-12-11 13:51:18 · 24 answers · asked by vinay s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your fantasy is very much natural and it speaks of your very good health. My hubby too had somewhat similar fantasies some years back. He expressed it with me honestly. I understood him and agreed to cooperate to realise his fantasies. As a first step, we called a photographer to take our "action photos" in the bed. We have that album now. (Though we have kept it secretly, we have boldly shown it to a few selected friends). Secondly, as desired by my hubby, I have stripped before his friends and danced nude. His friends have enjoyed sex with me as desired by my hubby. I too enjoyed it and now I have such things occasinally. And I do not have any feeling of "sin" since he wanted me to do all these.
2006-12-15 04:34:22 · answer #1 · answered by pootee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems you started war. You would find all these answers already were present in your mind fighting against each other much before you posted this question here.
As far as my opinion is concerned YOU ARE PERFECTLY NORMAL and WHAT YOU EXPECT IS GENUINE.
Difference of opinion which you see in every answer is because of the perspective of individuals.
You can never claim for sure that these are BAD things and will lead you to hell. "THEY ARE NOT BAD. Simply because they make you happy without making anyone else unhappy. "
Do consider having open discussion about this with your wife. You might need to show her this post and the war happening in you. As far as friends are concerned i feel its better to do this with completely new person. Acquaintances and friends are different kind of partnerships which "MIGHT" have other impacts on your friendship after the act is over. I recommend going for completely unknown still trustworthy resource. Which sounds weired but you really think you have an answer.
mail me if you are still in doubt whizinc@yahoo.com
2006-12-12 03:29:03 · answer #2 · answered by whizinc 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Mine does not involve my wife or friends: I am tied up on an “X” shaped cross dressed in red velvet, like Santa, horizontally positioned one meter over the floor, while a virgin girl of eighteen, standing over my face is pissing on me. Another girl has my member in her mouth, biting gently the glans while a third one, dressed in a nurse uniform gives me an enema with “Cordon Rouge” champagne.
Yours is OK too...
2006-12-14 05:46:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is very natural to have those thoughts. It is actually healthy. It will keep the sparks alive in your marriage. I am so sure your wife has fantasy's as well and they are probably just as wild as yours are. Maybe you should tell her your thoughts and see where her mind is, you never know, she may feel the very same way.
Enjoy!
2006-12-11 21:55:43 · answer #4 · answered by megabites42 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, that is pretty out there. But as long as it stays just a fantasy and never comes to fruition, I guess it's harmless. If you ever tried to turn it into reality, you will be setting yourself and your wife up for major humiliation and heartache.
2006-12-11 22:00:52 · answer #5 · answered by Radio Diva 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is nothing wrong with you,you just seem to have kinky things you want to try with youre wife,But just rember where to draw the lines and I think you sould tell her she maybe willing to help you live out some of youre fantaties
2006-12-11 21:56:06 · answer #6 · answered by Eric c 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't even have to read what your fantasy is. There is NEVER anything wrong with a fantasy. Fantasies, no matter how out there or bizarre or violent or depraved, are PERFECTLY natural. Just don't act on them!
2006-12-11 21:55:01 · answer #7 · answered by JudasHero 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That one is way out their for sure. If your wanting your wife to have sex with another, I think you have some issues.
2006-12-11 21:53:41 · answer #8 · answered by Rugir 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That's wild, never heard that one before. I personally would not call that normal, but than again who really is?
2006-12-11 21:54:47 · answer #9 · answered by SOLO KING 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
lolz...everyone do that!there's nothing wrong with it.That's the way you want it to be,that's why you fantasize about it.But,should you involved your friend in this matter?and why she must be your wife,not your girlfriend?
2006-12-11 21:54:48 · answer #10 · answered by 'popcornz' 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋