Ok first off we are both freshmen in college and I have never had a girl problem I could not answer myself but this one blows my mind. Anyway, I met this girl about 2 weeks ago, for a week i would chill on occasiion with her and her friends. Well, I then find out her along with her friends thin im hot and whatever the usual. Well, the one girl I liked came over about a week ago and we hooked up and she slept over, then she spent the whole day at my dorm, then 1 night later she sleeps over again and again we do everything. Yesterday, she calls me, shes upset saying that she doesnt think she can do this and wants out of the relationship. She said, and I quote, "you make me feel very special" (I am very complementative) along with all these other great things but she says she wants to get to know me more etc before we can be in a relationship again. Should I do this or just say screw it, I mean I gave this girl everything I had she spent the night etc,12 hours later she calls it. -----
2006-12-11 13:50:32 · 11 answers · asked by SR 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok i need to add this, she took some of my clothes as well a lacoste shirt and wore it to our final in one class, also she
Lastly, i was talking to her today and she said things were moving too fast but she made all the moves to do that and was having a great time with it and she showed n osigns of discomfort. Also I said i would talk to her after the break but she insisted we hang out tommorrow so I said sure, is she playin me or what....i have no answers to this one
2006-12-11 13:53:05 · update #1
whoa.....haha no man, she wanted to date i hadnt even thought of it yet, so the next day i asked her to lunch and asker her and she was like yesssss definitely, so i said ok lets try it. She dyed her hair for me and invited herslef over to spend the night
2006-12-11 14:13:00 · update #2
She's having a case of "buyer's remorse."
2006-12-11 14:12:55 · answer #1 · answered by Lookin' 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yup, this is an obvious one.
I would bet you play the nice, sweet boy in order to lure girls into bed. In other words, I would wager that you don't think you can be an honest, forthright guy with integrity and get women to sleep with you. You believe being genuine about what you want from women (in this case, hook ups) would turn them off, so you play the nice, sensitive little boy, they buy it, and you get laid. But the break up (or getting dumped) is a *****.
I'd bet my life savings on it.
Which is all fine and dandy, whatever floats your boat, but you get what you had here. A girl who fell for it, and then after leaving you, something clicked in her head... "wait a minute" she thought "I think he wants something serious... he was kissing my *** and all that... I think he's looking for a girlfriend! Yikes! Guy who just met me already wants something serious! Bail bail!"
And thus you get "You're wonderful but we should slow down and BE FRIENDS (translation: you freaked me out and I want nothing to do with you romantically, but I don't wanna seem like a *****, so I'll give you the friends tip)."
The end. Stop faking.
2006-12-11 14:05:44 · answer #2 · answered by JudasHero 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be that it felt right to her at the time the two of you hooked up and then she felt like it was rushed and regretted it because she felt like she didn't no you well enough. Although, it does seem a little weird. If you like her like you say, you need to decide if you think she's worth waiting it out. Let her get to know you better.
2006-12-11 14:09:53 · answer #3 · answered by Rita 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It looks like shes feeling insecure contained in the relationship, and could be greater severe approximately you than you're her. in case you opt for to maintain the relationship going, you would be able to desire to reassure her which you nevertheless opt for to be along with her, and consult along with her and textual content textile her greater. Its in simple terms component to a actual relationship. If that's in simple terms too plenty for you, then smash up along with her and dont leave her putting.
2016-10-05 05:00:20 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing seems wrong here , and she was right that the things are moving fast here . the best thing you need to do is talk to her and get her veiw on the issues that can help you , do use your mind also while being with her as you use your heart and desires . catch her moves and you get your answers your self .
2006-12-11 14:07:13 · answer #5 · answered by gunchu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She probably just wishes she'd waited on the physical stuff until she knew you better. She still wants to see you. Just follow her lead in the area of physical contact.
2006-12-11 13:58:38 · answer #6 · answered by missie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if she wants to know you better why not get to know her better --- go out talk but dont have her over --- show her it is more than just sex (i assume that has happened by your words) show her you care --- if it is only about sex then she is right to dump you
2006-12-11 13:55:33 · answer #7 · answered by trader1867 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My god that's too long if you have given me 10 points than i would have answered it.
2006-12-11 16:45:31 · answer #8 · answered by neil 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is really very weird situation
2006-12-11 18:22:22 · answer #9 · answered by pearly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DAMN! THAT'S NOT A QUESTION THAT'S A FREAKIN PARAGRAPH. I THANK YOU FOR MY POINTS THOUGH.
2006-12-11 13:57:55 · answer #10 · answered by dragonfly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋