the only thing we say to each other is hi and bye. he is the type of guy that study hards [we're at uni] and plays hard and when i say play hard i mena hard: he is into every freaking psort that is on this earth and he goes out clubbing every freaking night. here's the catch he is so mysterious that's why i like him so. i am not the party animal, like in high school i did it so much that it's passe to me. he doesnt have a gf and no he'snt gay...he's a loner like me and that's why i am so into him....every night i would go to sleep thinking about him and how it would be so nice for us to be together which is impossible because he's a party animal and i'm a homie girl...my question is i dont want my fantasy to become into an obssession which i see it starting to do, i dont want that...so how do i stop fantasizing about him? honest answers please...PMSing here!
2006-12-11 13:48:50 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
really?? nuh-huh? u r so lying!
2006-12-11 13:53:59 · update #1
Too late.Read your letter back to yourself.You're obsessed with him and its not healthy.
This is a symptom of a deeper problem.
You want what you know you can't have and what you know is not good for you.
This is a self esteem problem big time.
Stop wishing for some party animal you can't have and would make your life miserable anyway and start the most important journey of your life;the search for yourself and your life's purpose.
2006-12-11 13:58:01 · answer #1 · answered by Mark K 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
OH I KNOW...................THINK ABOUT ANOTHER GUY.
2006-12-11 21:51:12 · answer #2 · answered by dragonfly 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋