2006-12-11 13:26:01 · 8 answers · asked by L♥G 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It really depends on your age. Older guys (who probably have their own children) probably wouldnt mind so much. Now younger guys, just plain and simple, don't want a lady with baggage unless they really love you and love your kid. When searching for a guy, be upfront about the kid. You want a man who's open minded enough to accept your child while dating you. Now, if he has a look of horror on his face when you mention lil suzie, he probably isn't ready anyways, don't waste your time. Good Luck.
2006-12-11 13:34:29 · answer #1 · answered by Amanda 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
that depends on the guy.first of all you shouldn't hide the fact you have a child.the child should be way,way more important than any guy.let the guy know you have a child .if things work out well good,if not it just isn't worth it.no body should come between a parent and a child.I've been dating the same guy for 6 years and from day 1 I told him that I have 2 kids,and no man will ever come between us.things have been GREAT. just give him heads up about the child. good luck
2006-12-11 21:38:17 · answer #2 · answered by hl 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Some do some don't I had two relationships that came as a ready made family. both were great experiences. the second one involved a girl and a boy who are now in their mid twenty's and still call me dad.
some guys are not looking for that kind of responsibility.
2006-12-11 21:31:48 · answer #3 · answered by mark_grvr 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think some guys do. There are some laws that even require a man who is not the father of the child to pay child support if he's even viewed as a "father figure" (moms long term bf who even acknowledges he isn't biologically). So men have to be careful actually.
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2006-12-11 21:29:22 · answer #4 · answered by Violet Wisdom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it depends on the age of the people involved. and also whether or not the guy has kids too.
it's important to think about the kids best interest in these type of situations..
2006-12-11 21:33:18 · answer #5 · answered by Jeff 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
yes, but they will ignore this tidbit in the beginning if they want to tag you. later they will care and move on.
Good luck figuring it out
2006-12-11 21:29:15 · answer #6 · answered by mike Z 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends - if they have kids you know they put out.
2006-12-11 21:33:33 · answer #7 · answered by fireman4u 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Nobody wants to be with you and your damn bastards!!
2006-12-11 21:41:08 · answer #8 · answered by PASSIONS 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋