They have an open relationship for about 1 yr, think he has stopped dating, only w/her since the summer but she continues to date on the side w/out him knowing. At a party we ended talking about my separation from my husband. Asked if I was ready to date b/c in car I jokingly said that's it I'm ready to kiss someone tonight for the first time in 9 years. I was sitting at booth and was laughing w/other guy. Boyfriend was on other side and had his arms up on top of the booth at one point he put his arm around my waist, pulled me closer to him then he put his hand on my butt and squeezed. I was in mid sentence so in order not to make a scene I pushed his hand and asked other guy to move, got out of booth. 40 min later, he wasn't feeling well, wanted to leave b/c he was very drunk. Sis was not ready b/c she was flirting, he slept in my car until we left. Next day he did not remember even sleeping in my car and other things. Thinking to let 1 time pass b/c of drunkiness but I'm not mad.
2006-12-11 13:10:40 · 13 answers · asked by benjiandremy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't make this a big deal, or even if it is for you (considering the fact that you went all out and write it here), if you can still sleep at night by keeping this to yourself, it would be better. People do crazy things when they're drunk. If it's not that serious, you should just forget it ever happened. It will save all of you a lot of awkwardness between in the future, that includes your sister too.
2006-12-11 13:17:43 · answer #1 · answered by January Flower 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sounds like she has low self esteem. As long as she has no confidence, she'll hang around. Having a child won't make her leave him any faster.
2016-05-23 07:20:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well he was drunk so I wouldn't say anything to rowdy her up
but
I would watch my back around him when he was drunk
if he keeps doing it, drunk or sober, yeah I would tell her. For conversation. It looks like she's dating others anyway so it doesn't really matter.
I would wait though, until he does it again.
2006-12-11 13:15:23 · answer #3 · answered by bun223 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, they do have open relationship, which is a really hard situation. you should talk to Boyfriend to see if he recalls doing what he did. Sis should be told so she could see there's communication between you guys. if it bothered you, you should tell her
hope this help somewhat
2006-12-11 13:15:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If its her "sort of" boyfriend, then he didn't do anything wrong. Really. If your friend would be hurt by it, then the issue isn't that he hit on you... its that they haven't takent steps to eliminate that "sort of" from their relationship.... in which case telling her won't help her at all, anyway.
2006-12-11 13:17:57 · answer #5 · answered by gooniekim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know your sister best. What would she want you to do? ALSO, if you sister ever found out you didn't tell her this and she found out, would you have wish you told her? Let your answers to this guide your decision to tell. Good luck!
2006-12-11 13:13:34 · answer #6 · answered by Violet Wisdom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not you, she will get very mad at you. Tell someone else that was at the party to tell her that they saw her boyfriend hitting on someone.
2006-12-11 13:14:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Family is family. Guys who are jerk enough to hit on his girl's sister are not likely going to be good marriage material....so you should tell her... and she should dump him.... before their relationship goes further and she gets hurt really bad.
Best Wishes,
Sue
2006-12-11 13:14:41 · answer #8 · answered by newbiegranny 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he did it to you, he is probably doing it with someone else
it's better to protect your sister than to hurt her in the long run.
2006-12-11 13:13:33 · answer #9 · answered by Gina 7 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he was drunk dont make a big deal about it jut as long as it doesnt happen again
2006-12-11 13:13:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋