My boyfriend and I fight a lot about how I show my affection. I like hugging and holding hands but I don't want to kiss, I think that we're too young to kiss. We're both 14. He thinks that I really don't care about him when I really do. I know that he loves me, but he's always talking about how I show my affection, and I'm getting annoyed. I like him and I don't want to break up with him I just want him to believe me when I tell him that I really do like him. Is there anyway that I can get him to believe me without kissing?
2006-12-11 13:04:56 · 8 answers · asked by Acire 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ask him if theres any other way u could prove u lyk him without kissing.tell him ur not comfortable with it but u really do lyk him.
if he thinks u should break up bc u wont kiss hes not worth it.a guy should respect ur wishes to not want to kiss yet.also.not all kisses hav to be on the lips.try kissing him on the cheek.its a great first step if ur not comfortable with more intimate kissing.i was a lil uncomfortable with kissin my first bf nd even my second but its not that bad.just go with wat ur comfortable with.u probably r thinkin of lyk makin out in which case you shouldnt do it if ur not ready.but gentle kissing is ok.good luck.
email me if u need more advice.
2006-12-11 13:15:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, why do you have a boyfriend at 14?
Second of all you are doing the right thing. If he really loved you, he wouldn't be pressuring you, or making you feel bad for not wanting to go further.
It is obvious you are too young, and it is obvious you don't want to engage in any sexual activity.
So I would be single for now. Your not ready.
But if you must have a boyfriend, explain to him that YOUR NOT READY, and if he gets mad, then he doesn't love you.
Your too young to be feeling the pain of a broken heart honey, so please be careful.
Best of Luck.
2006-12-11 21:11:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that with this child, words are not very strong and your attention to him is not enough for him. I would try something that would show that you went out of your way to make him happy, like that present he has always wanted or a date somewhere nice. Actions speak louder than words, and actions don't always have to be physical. Good luck
Have a nice day :-)
2006-12-11 21:13:07 · answer #3 · answered by drewfranklin4 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're not ready to kiss him, ditch him if he's pressuring you. You're only 14...don't rush yourself into anything that you're not ready for just to appease him. If he really did 'love' you, he'd understand and not try to pressure you into kissing.
2006-12-11 21:09:18 · answer #4 · answered by emmie8750 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's just trying to munipulate you to do what he wants, you need to tell him if he really loves/likes you then he needs to respect the fact that you aren't ready for that.. your to young to get involved in that way, i have a 13 yr. old daughter and alot of boys like her and try to get her to do things, but she is very stern in telling them what she won't do and they still like her
2006-12-11 21:08:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
welll you should kiss him becuase your not young your age is pretty normal just go with the flow if u really n truely love him just kiss him its perfectly normal
2006-12-11 21:08:44 · answer #6 · answered by elle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can ask one of your friends if they can tell him that you really like him. he would probably believe your close friends because friends always share secrets with each other.
2006-12-11 21:10:39 · answer #7 · answered by littlec 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't need a boyfriend at 14...we are all geeks at that age. focus on school and athletics. good luck
2006-12-11 21:08:07 · answer #8 · answered by keepingitgoing 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋