Men in London are so unfriendly.?

Question

I am very good looking...well according to people I know. I get loads of looks on the street. However no man seems able to approach me. They just seem to look and move on. What's the problem.

I'm actually not American.

lol...truely I am not vain, or arrogant at all...I actually think I am just ok looks wise. It is friends etc...that say I am good looking and I just don't know it...they describe me as stunning...I say 'Yah right, if that's the case why don't guys chat to me'. I am actually shy..believe it or not

Answer 1

Try not to look so damm beautiful...you're scaring them off. You will only get attention from the louses.

How about wearing a t-shirt with something witty written on it when you go out. It would give guys a way of approaching you. humour always breaks the ice.

Answer 2

london is a slightly unfriendly place anyway. i used to work in Victoria. there is an atmosphere of selfishness because most or a huge number of the people there during the day live outside the centre.
I feel a bit hurt at the suggestion that most English hate Americans. That is not true.
there is a great diversity in both countries and it takes all sorts to make a world. it would be dull indeed if we all agreed with each other all the time anyway.i used to go to an American Church. I love Americans, fairly obviously, i suppose.
if i met u up in town tomorrow, the only reason i might not engage with u is if u r really pretty and i panic !!! I am, sadly, a bit shy.
no, really.
if u find a decent cabby, they can usually talk the hind legs off a donkey! if u r nice looking, i am sure THEY would have plenty to say!!

p.s. welcome to London and to England, u r most welcome.
i hope u have a really nice time here. whatever ur nationality. what is it, incidentally?

Answer 3

Actually there was a poll done in a national news paper (Daily mail I think) and it stated that US Londoners are actually the friendliest out of the whole country

And lets not forget British are reserved people maybe they are all just intimidated by your stunning looks

Not much point trying to pull a stunner if they think your going to go as if have you seen what I look like can do better than you! you could just be too much bother for them! or they think someone that looks like you must have a boyfriend already

Answer 4

Guys in the south are generally more street wise, good looking isn't enough if you want a keeper, it's about an attitude that attracts.

There is more competition in London and there are lots of good looking people.

What have you got which is attractive to guys other than your looks ?

Answer 5

You wanna be approached by men on the street in London who stare at you?? R U Nuts!

Answer 6

well when i was younger like in my 20's 30's even 40's i had men look at me every where i went, but none approached me. I don't know. Wish i knew. An I always was painfully shy.

Answer 7

Ever thought of looking elsewhere then? People all over the country would kill to get their hands on a woman like you. Will wait your reply.

Answer 8

You're probably too good looking.

Truth is that most of us men (not all)... if your overly good looking... there is a mental block at the possibility that we'd have a chance.

Answer 9

might be cos u are so immodest and u give off an aura of thinking u are better than any1 else

Answer 10

You should make the first move if no one approaches you. Maybe you have an unapproachable air about you.