Well I am kinda lonely, I know I look good, but every time someone gets close with me I like back out at the last, minute and think I am not ready. MY sex life is good but I want more sex. I don't know I think I am afraid of COmmitment, I don't know how to get over it though.
2006-12-11 12:58:19 · 8 answers · asked by emo_scarz 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What scares you the most? You just have to figure out what the reason is that scares you the most. Only you know why you are scared and what your problem with commitment is. Think about if your fears are realistic or not and go from there.
2006-12-11 13:02:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi
I think u r not afraid of commitment, but looks like u r afraid of things go bad due to ur past experience if u commit...
if u r only intersted in sex, then i would say commintment does not come nywhere
but if u r intersted in a relation, i would say that have ur partners intentions clear as well towards u and then go ahead accordingl
2006-12-11 21:04:47 · answer #2 · answered by Inquistive_man 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't. I would be up front with the women that you go out with. Its not fair to women that are wanting a relationship and think you feel the same. Just be honest with them. Do not use women for sex. This is wrong.
2006-12-11 21:03:46 · answer #3 · answered by tnbadbunny 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know how old you are,but when you find the right girl you'll commit.Your problem then will be to stay committed,sense you love sex so much.
2006-12-11 21:03:29 · answer #4 · answered by Willnotlietoyou 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need help with growing up ...not commitment....If your guy says you are not ready...do not pursue committment just for fun. You will not only destroy someones faith in true relationship, it will haunt you too.
Your conscience says you are not ready....wait for the grenn light...
2006-12-11 21:02:13 · answer #5 · answered by deevoonay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well..den don commit...don ever promise ur partner anything. in the end it will only make things worse. one fine day u'll wake up telling urself: hey, i wanna settle down now.
tats when u commit..
2006-12-11 21:01:42 · answer #6 · answered by sulaji84 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax you're most likely not ready and right now it just isn't for you.
2006-12-11 21:00:30 · answer #7 · answered by Laela (Layla) 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shrink time.
2006-12-11 21:00:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋