im 14 and my boyfriend is 17. lots of ppl tell me he's a stoner although we spend a lot of time together and he's never high and when i ask him about it he gets mad at me and says "dont you trust me cassie?" and his friends say if i keep nagging him he's gonna break up with me. what should i do??
2006-12-11 12:56:22 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well if i were you, i would just trust him until you are POSITIVE that he is (see him doing it). If you continue to ask him, he will get mad because relationships are about trust. So just stop asking him and take ur mind off of it and think of the good qualities in him.
2006-12-11 12:59:22 · answer #1 · answered by Dani 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To me it doesn't remember if someone is a stoner, see you later as they no longer also an unmotivated, unambitious loser, it truly is at the same time as its a difficulty. i comprehend a good type of human beings which will be seen stoners.lots of them are in specialist positions and are able to keep it a secret from all people who doesn't smoke with them, because they're useful contributors of society. a number of them sit down at abode doing no longer something, and that is a difficulty. in case you are able to't be a stonner and nevertheless be responsible you need to end. Which one is he? The loser that needs dumping or that guy that likes a smoke, (no longer a lager or a F****** reality television educate) after artwork/study? once someone has determined that pot is for losers in problem-free words you are able to't replace their concepts so it replaced right into a nasty bypass to say something to dad and mom.
2016-11-25 21:47:00 · answer #2 · answered by kulpa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't nagg him. His friends are right too about the nagging brcause you're acting more like his mother than his gf. Until there is some solid proof that he is a stoner, just trust him. ( Innocent until proven guilty...remember that!) & even if he is...what would you do? I don't know, I like details
2006-12-11 13:01:26 · answer #3 · answered by pkbabe87 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ah... Good times.... I still have the burn mark on my finger...
anyways, so what? Who cares what your friends or anybody says? It's your problem, not thiers, they shouldnt be butting into your business. And if they do interfere a lot, then it's thier problem that they have issues about it.
You know, unless you dont like the fact he might be a stoner. THEN IT'S YOUR PROBLEM!
2006-12-11 12:59:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If everyone is telling you he's a stoner then there's a good possibility he might be one. Usually when people are guilty about something they get really defensive...trust your instincts.
2006-12-11 13:02:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well don't listen to other people. IF you find out he is just make a good judgment call and stop hanging with him for that will get you a reputation and into trouble. Make sure you make good choices now while you can while you are still young. I know......listen to me. I have made some bad choices in my life and wish I was young again so i could do them over, but i cannot. So live life great for yourself. Eat right, do right, and be right in your mind and body for yourself. Don't let others run you down either. Hope that helps...or am I just rambling....? lol....
2006-12-11 13:00:19 · answer #6 · answered by MOM OF ONE 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if you really like him trust him and most stoners need it all the time so if you are with him alot then he's probably not just follow your heart it'll tell you what to do.
2006-12-11 12:59:54 · answer #7 · answered by confussed 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do your parents know you're going out with a 17 year-old? I hate to tell you girl, but most guys that age smoke pot these days.
2006-12-11 13:24:35 · answer #8 · answered by white.devil 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why should that matter to you, but atleast you know how he lies now... Just read what you wrote and you'll get my drift. and wait 17 and 14? For some reason the state might have a problem with that... They have issues.
2006-12-11 12:58:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
If you find "stone" hard evidence (haha a pun) then I'd get out IMMEDIATELY. If he is a truly nice guy, and that what people are telling you are just rumours, then I'd give him the benefit of the doubt.
2006-12-11 13:01:36 · answer #10 · answered by Ali B 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋