when a women invites u(whom i first met) to her hotel rm where she live at night at 12am after her work. does it mean she wants love ?
so i went there, she invites me to eat an apple. then we went to sleep. i told her i didnt want sex . I was afraid that i need to pay afterwards.
she asked me to go to work at 5.30am but i didnt really want to leave. was she chasing me out?am i rude not to give her sex?
2006-12-11 12:49:52 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she got no friends here...could it be she want to know more friends?
2006-12-11 12:51:15 · update #1
Only a fool spends the night in the hotel room of a stranger. She could have rolled you and bugged out while you were sleeping and/or knocked you out to do it!
I don't know what she wanted, but if she kicked you out early in the morning.... she didn't get it. Or she didn't trust you alone with her belongings when she went to work.
Best Wishes,
Sue
2006-12-11 12:53:48 · answer #1 · answered by newbiegranny 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
usually women dont invite men to their hotel room that late to "eat an apple." She might have been looking for something. I dont think you were rude to say you didnt want to have sex. Its purely your choice, you have no commitment to her at all.
2006-12-11 12:54:42 · answer #2 · answered by bluestar_dreamsx 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In future, I would suggest avoiding going into the hotel room of a woman you don't know well enough to know whether she wants sex or not.
2006-12-11 12:54:10 · answer #3 · answered by booktender 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am gonna say that she wanted sex, and yes she was chasing you out. You didn't say what kind of work she did. If she works on the street corner then yes you would have had to pay her later!
2006-12-11 12:55:17 · answer #4 · answered by Amy R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hell yeah she was chasing you out, you are one of the 2% that turns down sex.That is really unusual. I commend you on that because now a days you never know what someone is carrying around.But, rejection is a M.F especially when you put yourself on the platter to enjoy and they turn it down.The stupidity you feel and I know you wouldn't want to feel that would you?
2006-12-11 12:55:53 · answer #5 · answered by Seemoney 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sex isn't frienship but she may just need company you are smart for not giving in and strong. alot of guys would have just gone with it not taking any precautions. If she is new in town ther might be another reason for that also
2006-12-11 12:53:50 · answer #6 · answered by Life lover 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you were not rude, I think she was rude inviting you and not telling you why and then chasing you out afterwards.
2006-12-11 12:54:21 · answer #7 · answered by misty blue 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Does it matter whether or not you were rude by not giving her sex? It's your body and you have the right to decide when you want to have sex with someone.
2006-12-11 12:52:18 · answer #8 · answered by ▒♥▒♥▒♥▒♥▒™ 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
You are not rude, but she chased you out because you don't appreciate her offer. That's all!!!
2006-12-11 13:38:06 · answer #9 · answered by AH HA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you weren't rude you didn't want to then you didn't have to and if she can't respect your wishes then she's not for you either way
2006-12-11 12:53:32 · answer #10 · answered by zwiegele1 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋