I havent had a boyfriend since my sophomore year in high school
(the last one cheated on me) And now I am a Senior. I can honestly say that I know im not ugly because I do have guys hit on me but i cant seem to find out why no one has asked me out. Is it me? am I doing something wrong? I mean I dont dress like a H03. Ive got a good sense of style. Im fun and love to laugh. Im on the Cross country and track team and love to meet new people...Ive only got about5 more months till im out and I know i can find someone better oce in college but this situation has made me insecure about myself. what can the problem be?
2006-12-11 12:47:50 · 11 answers · asked by S.Lexy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You sound very confident in who you are. This may be intimating to others. One never knows how others may think of us, or what impression we make on others. Perhaps your prior pain is coming out in ways you're not aware of.
In your shoes, I wouldnt worry about it. Simply enjoy your HS years. It will be over b4 ya know it.
2006-12-11 12:53:59 · answer #1 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There's no problem. You might be intimidating and also, you are going to graduate and the guys might not want to start something if they know you are going to college or if they are going away to college. In any case, college is a place where you can start out fresh, guys will hit on you and you will have your pick. Be thankful the guys aren't trying to be your boyfriend right now because once you go to college, it will all change.
2006-12-11 20:52:32 · answer #2 · answered by nurse_ren 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The problem could be thatyou're realistic. You know that you'll find someone when you go to college. This gives guys in front of your face very little incentive!
2006-12-11 20:51:57 · answer #3 · answered by booktender 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
first of all get your self esteem back up and don't feel insecure, sometimes they can sense that. wait you might find out in college you have a lot of guys that want to go out with and it will be hard to choose. keep having fun.
2006-12-11 20:51:27 · answer #4 · answered by misty blue 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i can't really figure out what you are complaining...it doesn't mean that you haven't got someone lately you will blame it to your own mental capacity...you said you like fun...so go out and have fun and laugh with your friends...you might stumble accidentally with a guy that's meant for you for the rest of your life...just be like you used to...nothing wrong with you....you'll go nuts if you keep thinking about your insecurity
2006-12-11 20:57:29 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe they think you aren't available. DOn't wait for them to ask you, ASK THEM! Plus you don't want to be tied down to a boy when you leave for college. That place will be full of MEN!
2006-12-11 20:50:17 · answer #6 · answered by Amy R 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should take advantage of this you time to find things that you love to do. Hobbies can make you feel oodles better about yourself.
2006-12-11 20:52:43 · answer #7 · answered by Bluehoodie 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There is nothing wrong with you....if you like a guy ask him out....there is no shame in telling a guy you like him...Its the 21 century
2006-12-11 20:50:24 · answer #8 · answered by iadoremarilyn86 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
u r not trusting yourself as much as u did before. u need 2 trust urself
2006-12-11 20:51:08 · answer #9 · answered by Edith 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Maybe you're so great, the guys are scared you'll reject them.
2006-12-11 20:50:13 · answer #10 · answered by ▒♥▒♥▒♥▒♥▒™ 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋