Is it true that when girls have guy friends(and most of the guys in school think the girl is hot), the guys' minds tend to drift to sex thoughts and may want to make their friendship more?? Is this true?? Always??
Should I be on guard?? Is this what guys fantasize about?? SEX??
2006-12-11 12:45:31 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My b/f says that my name comes up when they talk about girl's they like.
2006-12-11 12:50:13 · update #1
Does it mean they can't be good friends too?? Or just good friends with thoughts that drift elsewhere??
2006-12-11 12:51:09 · update #2
Is it true that your very boring?
2006-12-11 12:48:55 · answer #1 · answered by armond425 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should be on guard even if the guys dress like priests, rabbis or mullahs. That has no bearing. A guy has to prove to you that he loves you dearly. How he proves to you and if you are convinced is another story. Fantasy is in fact sometimes a good thing.....only if helps in maintaining true love and affection....
Guys think differently than Gals...that is how nature created/evolved them...They should complement each other...fantasying about sex is in fact very natural...what makes it evil is what you fantasize and of whom....
When in doubt....do not pursue or give in .....
2006-12-11 12:55:12 · answer #2 · answered by deevoonay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
provided you are not massive in size. provided you do not smell worse the sewer plant . provided you do not wear a sign saying infectios diease carrire , and provided you do not have boggers hanging out of your nose more then 2x per week then yes each of the guys will be thinking how it would be to jump your bones further more each of them has discussed this matter in great detail with each other both in groups and one to one.
a great deal of laughing and joking went on but for the most part unless you meet the above list of things not desired then most of what was said and thought is to a large part true.
however. the boys understand that you are a friend and this is leaving them to wonder if in secret you are a lesbian so each of them as before in group and one to one has discussed in detail who it is that you are gettting it on with and what it would be like to join the two of you.
each of the boys thinks this is both fantastic and somewhat hopes that it is true yet each of them does not belive this to be true .
you need not be on gaurd unless you see an increase in the aggressive behaviour of the males toward one another when you are present . if you see this then you know that they are butting heads to see who is the bull moose.
quite often in the human moose pack the moose the bull moose that mounts the female moose is not the one seen butting heads with the other moose but is instead the silent one that seems all to amussed watching the other moose bang there heads agaist each other. this moose you see if waiting for the female moose to get bored and walk off . the smart moose without the sore head hint hint will then folllow the female moose around sniffing as he goes.
at some point the smart male moose will find some different kinds of grasses to offer the female moose to either smoke or eat at which point that male moose will mount the female moose and that is that.
i hope this helps you to understand the mating rituals of the canadian moose .
2006-12-11 13:01:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know but I have alot of guy friends in school and I don't think any of their minds drift to sex thoughts.
2006-12-11 12:49:23 · answer #4 · answered by confussed... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'll tell you what, I've had girl friends who where nothing more than my friends for years, and the thought never crossed my mind, but then I've had girl friends who on some occasion a new chemistry developed between us, and in a couple of instances we dated. So really it depends on the guy, your relationship, and the chemistry between you.
2006-12-11 12:50:26 · answer #5 · answered by Ryan O 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most guys mind goes to sex when they see a hot girl... like what would it be like to be with her all night... would she be really good or what... that is what most think about at first sight of a hot girl..
2006-12-11 12:53:52 · answer #6 · answered by fred Flintstone 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah if they find you even mildly attractive, the thought usually crosses their mind about how good you would be in the sack.
2006-12-11 12:48:33 · answer #7 · answered by Mintygoodness1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We are just built that way and we cant help it one bit. so pretty much yes to all. That doesn't mean we cant be good friends but, we do think about you in that way.
2006-12-11 12:49:53 · answer #8 · answered by SOLO KING 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only every 7 seconds or so.
2006-12-11 12:50:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if they are 14-16.
yes
2006-12-11 12:48:54 · answer #10 · answered by applejuice 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Didnt you just ask this question???
Thanks for the 2 points, while you just lost 5
2006-12-11 12:49:01 · answer #11 · answered by iadoremarilyn86 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋