I was good friends with this one guy, when I suddenly realized that I really like him a lot. After that moment, I have been nervous around him since that - my voice is shaky, I dont know what to say sometimes, e tc...!!! And so i am really sad b/c it probably wont work out now. Problem is - this happens every time...therfore everything never works out. What should I do????
2006-12-11 12:41:41 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
blame it on your hypothalamus! you can't control the neurotransmitters on your brain as they ignite hormones to your muscles and every part of your body that makes you feel that way.
2006-12-11 12:48:02 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your mentally trying to protect urself from being hurt, u get nervous bc ur afraid he wont have the same feelings as u had for him, no one said love was easy is actually agony drawed on, bc u really what to find his feelings for you, but at the same time you dont want to hear no, and be hurt, but u should never hide your feelings because they will slowly rot in u, come out and tell him, and u will be happy if does have the same feelings for you, but if he doesnt now u know and u can move on with other fish in the sea and wont waste ur time on what if
2006-12-11 20:49:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is normal. But when that happens, step up to the plate, talk to the person more and get to know them...even if you've been going out for 3 months, there will still be times when you aren't going to say nothing to each other because you have nothing to say!
2006-12-11 20:46:17 · answer #3 · answered by Ryan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax. Calm down, take a deep breath. Try this.....e-mail him and let him know that you like him like him. Not so much to where it would be totally embarrassing if he turns you down. Just kind of play around with it first. Writing these things down is usually the best way to tell someone that you like them if you're nervous. That way, he won't recognize the shaking and trembling in your voice.
2006-12-11 20:45:50 · answer #4 · answered by Gutta chick 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it happens with most of the people. it is a sign of love. fear of non-acceptence by the other person causes nervousness. u should try to express ur love in other ways instead of talking. writing, appreciating, caring for, helping always etc. are some of the ways to express ur love.
2006-12-11 20:52:05 · answer #5 · answered by c v s r 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is normal for guys and girls, just get use to it!! It will happen every time you like a guy.
2006-12-11 20:43:36 · answer #6 · answered by ninja_harvey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that happened to a man i know and now hes married to her
2006-12-11 20:49:30 · answer #7 · answered by Will S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be yourself.
2006-12-11 20:43:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋