Ok so i feel like **** today and called my significant other to tell him how my stomach hurt and i might be pregnant.(i didnt get a chance to say that part).....and he confesses to me that he has been looking at a "Huffler" magazine!?!?!? should i end this relationship? what should i do? now he wont answer my calls coz he doesnt want to "talk" about it!!! . the call went something like this:
me- hey hun do you feel sick today?
him-no, why, you dont sound too good
me-yeah i feel like crap and my stomach hurts
blah blah everyday talk (how was yor day)
him- shut up ryan (to his friend)
me- why iosryan saying you ripped his magazine?
him- uhhhhh
me- have you looked at the magazine?
him-yes ..but not in a long time
me-have you jacked off to this huffler thing
him-i dont want to talk to you about this -click-
me -rrrrrrrrrrr
2006-12-11 12:35:13 · 12 answers · asked by cutie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
girl, if he's not confortable talking to you then he's not trusting you. if your determend to keep him try to do things that involve trust. like stand on somthing and fall into his arms, play truth or dare, etc.
good luck, and hun, just love yourself for who you are, and relax.
2006-12-11 12:41:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
The real issue is: are you pregnant. If he is looking at porn, he is just a guy. Guys do that. You may also find him watching it on the net or on DVD. The only question that matters is, if you are pregnant, where do you go from here?
2006-12-11 20:41:25 · answer #2 · answered by funwithu_007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's "Hustler" and who cares if he looks at the mags? He's with you, men are attracted to porn, just like women like to hear sexy talk ... it's a very natural thing that you should not be offended by.
Leave him if you want, but I think that's a silly reason
2006-12-11 20:38:30 · answer #3 · answered by Malone 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um..its a magazine? Better him jacking off to a magazine than on your best friend. Let it go. You got a possibly bigger problem to worry about.
2006-12-11 20:39:14 · answer #4 · answered by bluestar_dreamsx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG your going to break up wth a guy for reading hustler? If you like him date him. I think your just looking for a reason to dump him. GUYS LOOK AT THAT JUNK get used to it and grow up. Unless of course youd rather him cheat on you. Hes not going to admit to you he masturbated do a dumb picture, and why do you care? Grow up. Hes a guy.
I think its funny you called it Huffler....
2006-12-11 20:40:13 · answer #5 · answered by Bibsy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah it always sucks but i think a lot of guys do it. i hate it too but i dont think it necisarily means anything. most men are pigs and if yolu really love hi mand he really loves you just tell him u dont like it and be done with it. pick ur battles, cuz there will be plenty with any guy
2006-12-11 20:40:45 · answer #6 · answered by sunkist3122 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think you should end the relationship. Although it is annoying to think we arent doing enough to please our men that they have to look through Porn Mags. But think about this..Would you rather have him looking at porn mags and jacking off OR cheating on you with someone else?
2006-12-11 20:39:51 · answer #7 · answered by Mayra R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're boyfriend's a scrub. Dump him, if he can't even take time to listen to you on a phone think about him trying to be a dad.
2006-12-11 20:40:34 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him a second chance and if he does the same thing then dumb his sorry butt but that's my opinion. And if you think your pregnant then tell him then he will change his attitude.
2006-12-12 18:27:49 · answer #9 · answered by wuz up 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow I would be soooo pissed.. if my man needs to look at porn then Fu** him seriously. and that is mean what he done too hun Im sorry.. and I think its a Hustler.. my perve bro use to look at them ugh
2006-12-11 20:38:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋