I'm not interested in answers like, 'wow, your way too old to be thinking of guys. concentrate on your school work!'
No one listens to these, and they are stupid.
I want to know what a guy looks for in a girl, what he likes about girls, the best part of a girl, and how far he'd be willing to go to get her. I guess it would be good to know if he'd want her to drink or not.
I just want to know!!!
10 points to best answer!!!
2006-12-11 12:34:46 · 29 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just a girl I can relate to and maybe a little bit of making out but not right away. i dont drink and neither do any of my friends so i say no drinking. don't changed who you are for some guy cuz it probably wouldn't be worth it and i just like girls to be themselves in front of me. and try not to flirt with other guys when your going out with someone cuz most guys, icluding myself, hate that. i feel that i must not be doing something right since that girl would rather flirt with someone else instead of me. sucks the most when your standing RIGHT THERE.
idk where taters is getting her info from about either shy or outging but i would rather go out with a girl that is in between there. not shy because then i would feel uncomfortable around her but not too outgoing because, well, lets just say it didnt work out last time ;-)
2006-12-11 12:38:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I don't think any answer is "stupid". But, assuming you meant to say that you are too young to be thinking of guys, I disagree with that too.
Most guys and girls start feeling attracted to each other between 12 to 14. And it's perfectly normal.
I haven't been 14 in awhile, but I'm sure most are looking at physical attributes rather than what is in the mind.
Most haven't thought that much about drinking, and I would not recommend that.
Funny, you never mentioned how old you are.
2006-12-11 20:41:15 · answer #2 · answered by correcaminos72734 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At 14 he wants some one that is cute maybe looks a little older and he really just wants some one to kiss then maybe after 6 month do something more with, but remember your at the beginning of your dating years and things change over the next ten years so don't worry to much about it now cause some girls are like a good wine they mature better with time.
2006-12-11 20:38:06 · answer #3 · answered by Hoss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I was 14 I wanted a nice girl that liked to make out. I would like a little feel. But I really did not look for sex. That came when I was 16. The best part of a girl really is her personality. I guess if he really like her he would do anything within reason to get her, I don't think he would want her to drink, I would not kiss a girl if she smelled of booze.
2006-12-11 20:43:43 · answer #4 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I asked my 14 yr old son. He said some want to just look at girls others want to touch. He just likes looking at girls for now because he thinks too many girls have already been touched. And no he doesn't want a girl who drinks or smokes. I think if a boy or girl has been raised with morals they would just like to be friends with the opposite sex and not be made fun of or called names. There is plenty of time for other things when you are older.
2006-12-11 20:43:46 · answer #5 · answered by justme 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well..I have a twin bro... and he wants a girl that he can be hiself around. A guy doesn't want to have to be a whole other person just to impress you. A guy HATES when you have a bunch of guy friends...so if you do...don't tell the guy that your dating! A guy also wants a girl to have sense of humor and a GREAT smile! They want to be able to trust you. Honesty is an important factor. just be yourself...and you'll be fine! As long as your not those type of girls that switch boys like every day because guys hate that!
2006-12-11 20:38:15 · answer #6 · answered by Jasmin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most guys dont like hooker, drug addict, drinks alot girls for serious relationships.honesty, Godliness, modesty, and personally a bit of punk rocker.responsible, somewhat organized. looks are noticed but arent the # 1 thing on the list
emotionally strong, dont get in big trouble and arent abusive thats from the lips of 2 guys who r 14 hope it helps
2006-12-11 20:51:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
14 is a great age... the age where you get to figure out what kind of boys you like. Your question is one of those unanswerables because it depends on the guy. Make sure the guy you are with treats you right and doesn't pressure you to do anything you don't want. If you want to drink, drink... but don't do it to impress a guy.
Please be safe, and sane.. and don't take s**t from anyone.
2006-12-11 20:43:52 · answer #8 · answered by starryeyedhaze 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every boy/man is different.
Many might love you just for being you... get a tingle when they meet or see you, and ache for you when they are not with you.
Other guys might just want you to be a gf/friend... hang around, have fun... and you might want the same.
No guy who likes you would encourage you to drink if you don't want to. Some guys might not be impressed with drinky behaviour either. You don't have to do anything your not comfy with in order to impress anyone .. even boys you fancy.
Just be yourself is my advice - and you will find a guy who loves you for exactly the person you are.
2006-12-11 20:40:27 · answer #9 · answered by Joe Bloggs 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm sounds like you like someone.
A 14 year old guy probably has just hit the near starting of his puberty overdrive, so probably sports, cars, girls with other girls and them being in the middle. Those are the "cool" guys, then there's the "not-so-cool" guys: thinking of computers, and games, and computers again... :)
2006-12-11 20:41:33 · answer #10 · answered by Grant A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋