Here it is............ i been dating this girl for about 4 months and i love her...we have a good realtionship. The problem is that when she drinks, she doesnt even know i am around. She rather get attention from other people. We only fight is she when she drinks. I dunnno what to do, i am always scared when she drinks she might cheat on me. I am usual around when she drinks, so i know what is going on, but even when i am around she acts differnt, I AM WORRIED what will happen when i am not around...??????? HELP ME PLEASE.what should i do????
2006-12-11 12:21:19 · 12 answers · asked by aznromeo4ever 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you need to have a serious talk with her and get her to understand what she is doing and that you dont the person she is when she is drunk. If she doesnt care, then I hate to break it to you, you need to dump her....But before you do anything rash just give her time and let her come around....but believe me no one is going to change unless she wants to....
2006-12-11 12:26:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to tell you this but dump her. She sounds like she has a drinking problem. I know this from personal experience the drinking and fighting will only get worse. Your better off cutting your losses because people with drinking problems will never change until they are ready to and by then it's to late to resolve the bad feelings or broken heart. So it's better to move on now before it's to late. You'll find someone better that will treat you right...trust me. Good luck!
2006-12-11 20:27:19 · answer #2 · answered by Grace Q. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it is hard--especially if love is involved--but I think you know what you need to do. It seems the bottom line is that she cannot be trusted, she tends to ignore you when she is drinking. Better now that later. So very sorry. Good Luck.
2006-12-11 20:55:32 · answer #3 · answered by old_woman_84 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She got no respect for you obviously! If she cared enough she'd have controlled her drinkin so as not to get drunk enough to offend you. Have you tried talking to her about this? If not talk to her and tell her how you feel about her drinking habits...if you already have and she's not listening you need to just let her go and move on
2006-12-11 20:26:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anushka 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her (when she's not drunk, of course) that when she drinks she does things that hurt you. Ask her if she could possibly cut back on her drinking habits. If your relationship is a salvagable as it sounds, a talk may be in order.
2006-12-11 20:26:35 · answer #5 · answered by Ali B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If drinking means more to her than you do, then cut her loose. Better sooner than later. Like after she does cheat on you while she's drunk.
2006-12-11 20:25:02 · answer #6 · answered by WiccaWoman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have been there man!and i got hurt at the end.i though everything is going to work out but it DIDNT!i loved her and she loved me too but i guess she loved alcohol a little more then me.so she cheated on me one night when she was drunk!man i am telling you i feel your pain and i know you love her but you have to love your self a little more and just finish everything ASAP good luck
2006-12-11 20:26:13 · answer #7 · answered by armond425 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She obviously don't really like you for people's inner thoughts come out when they drink.
2006-12-11 20:23:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When she does this ignore her and talk to other people. Don't show her that you are jealous and treat her like she treats you. She will eventually get jealous.
2006-12-11 20:25:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever heard that when someone is drunk, he says what he really wanna say? Not being mean, so what does that tell you?
2006-12-11 20:39:03 · answer #10 · answered by Lady Smooth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋