is this girl i like
she is super cute and super talented (i already have her in myspace)
but i become to shy to go talk to her
what advice do you have so ican impress her?!?!
2006-12-11 12:10:57 · 36 answers · asked by jerenluis 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Backflips.
2006-12-11 12:12:31 · answer #1 · answered by amandafofanda66 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Trust me, she is probably just as nervous as you are. If you are both talking on Myspace and not in real life yet, she is probably scared to make the first move. My advice is to start by just saying hi to her in the hallway at school or something. The next day, take the time to notice something that you like about her. Maybe she got a new haircut, or has some cute shoes. I know, you're a guy so you may not care about this stuff, but just walk past her and say nice shoes or I like your hair. Once you start with that, complimenting her will get so much easier from there. And girls LOVE compliments. Then, start having little conversations. When you have time, stop her in the hall and tell her a joke or ask her if she's heard this or that song. Make sure she isn't busy talking with another guy or looks upset, because it could be a very bad time and end up really akward. After that, you can start having flow blown conversations, since you'll know things you have in common, and how she carries on a conversation (Like is she a listener, talker, combination of both, etc.). After this has happened, you should start to become pretty farmiliar with each other, so tell her you should hang out some time. If she says yes, she is probably interested so take the lead from there. If she says no, then no worries, she probably hasn't made up her mind yet. If worst comes to worst and she doesn't like you in that way, just move on to another girl. Good luck!
2006-12-11 12:22:44 · answer #2 · answered by I L♥VE YOU! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Smaile at her! Not in a creepy way, though. Be like "Hi (name)" and flash a smile, then turn around and keep walking. Do this when you see her, until you feel compfortable around her. Ten, next time there is a school dance coming up, ask her if she'll go with you. That usually works better than just asking each her "out". Good luck!
2006-12-11 12:16:15 · answer #3 · answered by Popsicle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all don't TRY to impress her...that usually doesn't work...you just need to find out what her interests are....become interested in the things she is interested in...and then chill and just be yourself...If you are already believing you have nothing to offer...then you probably don't. You need to stop selling yourself short. Confidence (not over confidence) sells itself. It is a good idea just to converse on ispace for a while...keep it simple....just say hi...let her take it from there...just ask about her....be a great listener...
2006-12-11 12:16:04 · answer #4 · answered by ticklemeblue 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't put pressure on yourself by wanting to impress her right away. Just find something you know she's interested in and maybe ask her about it. Show her you're interested in what she's interested in and that you're friendly and nice. You'd be surprised how impressive most girls find a guy like that.
2006-12-11 12:18:53 · answer #5 · answered by Hopeful girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Post a message on her myspace saying hi. Ask her about herself. She will be pleased with you for caring. Once you become good friends, ask her out! If you are really shy, email her a poem or an ecard or something asking her out so that you won't be able to flake out (lol). Good Luck!
2006-12-11 12:14:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
get to know her friends. talk to them and tell them how much you really like her. but you can only use this tactic in addition to wooing her yourself. you could pull the whole secret admirer thing. every girl loves that. leave her flowers, little notes. or if thats not your style, think of what she likes, what are the things that interest/impress her?? what does she like to do for fun? hope this helps, and good luck!
2006-12-11 12:39:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The most impressive trait about a guy is self-esteem and self-assurance. Being secure enough to be yourself is the most important thing when you are around someone you like.
Good luck!
2006-12-11 12:16:27 · answer #8 · answered by No Perm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok be yourself if she doesnt like u for that then thats her loss not yours so after bout a couple of weeks of gettin to know her(anyime i guess) tell her on myspace that u really love her see what she replies back if it's postive then ask her out if it's negeavtive say u friend did it i works out eather way good luck
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2006-12-11 12:16:06 · answer #9 · answered by jessica k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BE YOURSELF! =) forget myspace, just ask for her number and try talking to her. it's better that way. If anything, just don't try too hard. coming from a girl, a girl wants everything, but not too much. get it? haha. just always be yourself and don't fear her...she's just a cute awesome girl. =)
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2006-12-11 12:22:43 · answer #10 · answered by lady hiphop 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋