I met this guy he is so handsome and excellent and I totally fell in love with him. We went out on 2 dates and had great sex.After sex I feel I was so stupid cuz he is so charming he can just easily get any girl he wants, and I feel like just a notch on his belt...
Last night I pretend that I am also seeing other people (so it looks like I am not interested in him and I am not his prey)and he got so angry cuz he was actually interested in seriously dating me! He said I made grand assumption on him which killed his interest in me cuz he thinks I am crazy...
What should I do?I totally screwed it up~~~><~~~~
2006-12-11 12:07:38 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, first you would have to put yourself in his situation. How would you react if he did the exact same thing. Number one, you would probably think that what he did was childish... pretending to be seeing someone when he wasn't. That's playing games... instead of keeping it real. You want him...Prove how much you do. Tell him how you feel, apologize for what you done... prove to him that you want him and only him. You are going to have to prove to him that you are a woman and not a child! If it don't work out... remember to take it slow and not rush into intimacy. When you get intimate with someone so soon... you are doom to get messed up in the head! Especially if it's good!!!!!
2006-12-11 12:18:38 · answer #1 · answered by Toya B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You made an assumption and tried to manipulate this guy. This is not the best way to start any kind of relationship.
What you should do is learn from what happened.
Say what you mean and mean what you say. Sex alone does not a merry match make. Honesty and communication are what healthy and lasting relationships are built upon.
If you give up sex so easily and then judge yourself for it (the notch on the belt remark) then you possibly aren't a good candidate for casual sex. Casual sex is sex without any expectation.
2006-12-11 12:14:18 · answer #2 · answered by teach_empathy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him you made it up about dating other people and tell him why you did it. Promise him you will never play a head game with him again and sincerely appologize for hurting his feelings and assure him it will never happen again.
If he is serious about you, he will forgive you. If he doesn't then he is using it as an excuse to not see you again.
You're not crazy, just a bit manipulative and as you can see by the results- manipulation is not your friend!
2006-12-11 12:12:56 · answer #3 · answered by darrellkern 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Play on playa sounds like the true playa has turned the tables on you. I know this type and girl you know this type too so why are you even frontin him?! Why even stress this player? You could fix it and let him know that you aren't dating anyone but said that because you didn't want him to feel like he had to be commited but whats the point? This guy is a player and obviously has skill so let him play his game on someone else
2006-12-11 12:11:55 · answer #4 · answered by Tricia B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think theres anything you can do. Try talkin to him again. Tell him that you just felt a little insecure because your so wonderful and seemed like you could get any girl.
But you might not be able to get him back. This might just be a life leasen. Good Luck
2006-12-11 12:12:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him how you really felt. tell him that you felt like a notch on his belt and tell him that you would like him to express his feelings so that you both know where you stand with each other, at least for know because its still an early stage. from now on just be honest and truthful. it's what works best.
2006-12-11 12:11:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you play games someone always comes out looking childish.
The only thing you can do now is to come clean and try to explain what you did and why.
If nothing else this should be a good learning experience for you.
2006-12-11 12:11:17 · answer #7 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let this guy go if he is no longer interested, and wait to have sex with the next one.
Sex is one of the biggest reasons a relationship goes sour, and in that category, sex too early is a killer.
2006-12-11 12:10:33 · answer #8 · answered by Fur and Fiction 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sometimes guys can seem so sweet and too good to be true, but this does not mean that they treatevery girl the way that he treats you.
bake him a cake or buy him something nice, do some sucking up and apologize. tell him you made a mistake and ask him to give you anothert chance.
2006-12-11 12:12:52 · answer #9 · answered by tim's gal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, personally, I do not believe that you can be in love with him after only 2 dates. SEX does NOT equal LOVE. Anyways, you need to realize that you made a mistake. Maybe he'll get over it, maybe he won't.
Just remember, don't sell yourself short. True love is not found in high school.
2006-12-11 12:10:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋