girls how do u like for guys to approach u cause i need help and why and whats a turn on like physically and personality wise and turn offs
2006-12-11 12:04:18 · 16 answers · asked by mikysmith1234 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i mean i get compliments that i like good but i beg to differ and i would want a opninon from others so just can u just IM and i will show u what i look like
2006-12-11 12:15:08 · update #1
and if some guys justs askes u out of the blue what will u think of him
2006-12-11 12:16:21 · update #2
and if some guys justs askes u out of the blue what will u think of him
2006-12-11 12:16:23 · update #3
I love a guy who's bold in approaching me, and even more a guy who isn't scared off when I'm bold right back. The biggest turn on physically for me is a nice jawbone, hair. eyes, and a thin waist. But then again, that's just me. Other girls have completely different opinions.
As for personality-wise, I love a guy who can make me laugh and who isn't afraid to let me make him laugh.
And of course a guy who greets me with flowers, a kiss, and holds the door open for me.
2006-12-11 12:08:24 · answer #1 · answered by Fur and Fiction 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When a guy comes up to a girl and says she's beautiful we totally melt. When a guy says "your hot" then it is a total turn off. Beautiful sounds more intelligent compared to "Damn baby, you're fine!" So, approach the girl calmly, don't scare her, just do it casually. Girls love compliments, don't use the cheesy lines just say "I think you are absolutely stunning/beautiful/etc." Turn ons would have to depend on the girl. Some like tattooed bad boys, and some like clean momma's boys. Relate to her style. Personality wise also depends, we usually like funny, intelligent, commited guys. But don't get clingy.
2006-12-11 20:14:18 · answer #2 · answered by stopbeingsoscene 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I always look for a guy who is very well groomed and knows how to act in a public setting. He doesn't necessarily need to be the center of attention, but he can't be the one in the corner watching everyone. An athletic body is always a plus, but there's so much more under the surface. When a guy opens up and is a gentleman, that's a turn on.
Really, it sounds so cliche, but be yourself, and honestly, girls will love it. Be a gentleman, always.
2006-12-11 20:08:41 · answer #3 · answered by fdlgirl_002 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A turn on is a guy who is bold and outgoing.A confident guy.Don't beat around the bush.Be willing to ask me out frankly and don't act like you don't like me if you do.Women can always tell and it's more exciting if a guy has the courage to ask me flat out for a date. The other side of this coin is you have to be strong enough in your sense of self that you are willing to experience rejection,if that ends up being the case.Either way,I think it shows strength of character to be willing to take that risk.Good luck.
2006-12-11 20:10:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When a girl is eyeing at a distance physical appearance never hurt, but that's not all! A girl loves affection so drop her a compliment or two. Be nice, not clingy. Some guys think that a girl wants a ladies man, but that is COMPLETELY not true. A girl wants someone who is appealing to all her senses (i.e. don't smell bad, comb your hair, etc.), and she wants someone she can have all to herself. Happy hunting!!!
2006-12-11 20:11:55 · answer #5 · answered by Ali B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would want a guy 2 b sweet. he would have 2 tell me that i looked good that day, I smelled good, and basic compliments, lyk that. Also make sure that U smell good and ur breath is clean! (just a little tip) But yea, also just keep smiling and b urself. well best a luck!!!
2006-12-11 20:08:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He needs to at least start being friends with me, you know, talk to us first, or if you're bold enough, just ask us out. We girls like a fun attitude, BUT he needs to have some manners. There's nothing more than a guy that treats us like crap pisses me off.
Please, just act cool and don't act like a jerk.
2006-12-11 20:09:57 · answer #7 · answered by Eli Z 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know it depends on the girl. I have to say the giving don't be a jerk to her. Get to know her. Some turn offs are being really obnoxious, having a huge ego.
some turns on is like you are nice to her etc.
2006-12-11 20:09:23 · answer #8 · answered by khstennis01 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg yes!!!!
approach the girls.
its cool to act smooth but not too smooth or else we get intimidated and we cant act ourselves. but then agian not too shy or else you come out stupid. so yea just play it cool or act like yourself. dont be an *** just cause of your friends are around. and never lie... be honest no matter what. shes gotta accept your for you.
2006-12-11 20:11:35 · answer #9 · answered by lalalaboolalalala 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i like a guy with a strong personality, and confident, yet not selfcentered and vain, i like him spontaneous, funny, himself, outgoing, funny.. for the turn ons, start commenting on the way she looks, smells nice, looking sweet n sexy..
avoid talking in boring stuff in your date...
good luck
2006-12-11 20:12:45 · answer #10 · answered by NiMO gurL! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋