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http://i135.photobucket.com/albums/q140/rockenren19/meinabathingsuit.jpg
Please look at my picture.
I am the one in the pink bathing suit.
All my friends call me anorexic, but my brother teases me, and calls me fat.

2006-12-11 11:55:22 · 16 answers · asked by rockenren91 1 in Health Diet & Fitness

16 answers

You look good. You don't look too thin either. Brothers tease. That's a fact of life.

Anorexia is an eating disorder. It's not how thin you look, it how your normal eating cycle is not working.

Are you sure you're comfortable with posting your pictures here? There is all sorts of creeps looking here...

2006-12-11 11:58:11 · answer #1 · answered by Snowflake 7 · 0 0

First, think about why someone (even a brother) would call you fat (if you were or weren't, it makes no difference)...

1. They are just trying to annoy you.
2.. They are testing your security (i.e. seeing if you're insecure and if so, exploiting it.)
3. They are, themselves, insecure.
4. Particularly applicable to a brother: putting chewing gum in your hair has lost its luster, so he's moving on. Maybe it's not as interesting as putting dead animals in your bed, and not as mean as shaving half of your head in your sleep, but he's going to try his best at irritating you to the point of breaking.

A motherly note: You do not need to go online and post pictures of yourself for strangers to see. This is an obviously bad decision. You do not look 18 and seven if you were, you should consider your personal safety in doing this sort of thing in the future.

If you truly feel that you have a body image problem, I suggest speaking to an adult family member, family friend, school counselor, or medical professional about this.

2006-12-11 20:28:30 · answer #2 · answered by Jess4352 5 · 0 0

You should not worry about what others think of you, only what you think of yourself. I, myself do not think you are fat, and agree with the person who said if you think you are fat you are anorexic, to a degree. It is one of the common signs of anorexia, but as long as you keep eating you should be fine, but please listen to your close friends, since they only care about you and want to help you, where as your little (I assume he is is little based on what you said) brother does not understand that it could be life or death, and most guys are immature until they reach adulthood, and only teases you because he gets a reaction from you.

2006-12-11 20:05:41 · answer #3 · answered by minifrog_ca 2 · 0 0

You are def. not fat and you don't need to even worry about that right now.. I totally agree brothers are jerks they know we have to be good in everything.. so they make us feel bad.. but as far as what other people think honey..
people will judge you all the time.. I'm 22 years old.. and sometimes when I'm out going to the club.. my friends tell me I look really good.. I don't dress slutty but I hear people saying wow she looks stuck up.. I mean they don't even know me but the way I dress makes me look stuck up apparently..
Your cute.. don't worry...

2006-12-11 20:03:06 · answer #4 · answered by endlesslove 24 1 · 0 0

You look perfect to me, and a little young to be worrying about your weight. Ignore your brother.

2006-12-11 20:02:34 · answer #5 · answered by Jennifer 2 · 0 0

No, you could gain some weight not a bunch! You look fine to me!

2006-12-11 19:57:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Your brother is an idiot. You should go eat a box of Twinkies.

2006-12-11 19:58:22 · answer #7 · answered by Hound Dawg 2 · 1 0

look like a perfect weight to me. dont ever think your fat. your brother could do some serisou mental damage to you if you let it get to you. dont listin to him.

2006-12-11 19:58:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

You look great! If only I'm as tall as you!
Hehe.and you have a slim tummy!

2006-12-11 20:03:15 · answer #9 · answered by smallorganic 2 · 0 0

You are not fat. The lady lying on the beach is..

2006-12-11 20:33:06 · answer #10 · answered by Ho S 2 · 0 0

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