Guys, If your g/f was supposedly(according to most guys) the hottest, most sought after girl, would you not let her have guy friends?? My friend's b/f hates it when she spends time with her guy friends, who all like her. Is he normal or overreacting??
Is he worried she will leave him?? She has known these guys since jr. high, So why is he worried?? Is he worried they will push her to me more than just friends?? Cuz she feels totally safe with her friends as well as her b/f.
2006-12-11 11:47:12 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You have to learn to trust each other and see how far your trust can go with each other..if you know that the girl wouldn't do anything to hurt you then you shouldn't have a problem with her having guy friends. If she is the flirty type LET HER FLIRT but you just need to know that their are boundaries with flirting...so you do the math and think about it...I mean if she is the type that may hurt you, than don't STOP her from having guy friends, but check her out with her friends!
2006-12-11 11:52:15 · answer #1 · answered by Ryan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls think differently than guys about that.Sometimes girls think that having male friends is O.K, and it is for some girls.But they don't think about what's going on in those guys minds when they look at her.He knows how guys think,and doesn't want her to be seduced by any one of them.If it has not already happened.Or get herself in a compromising position.He has a right to be concerned.
2006-12-11 11:58:47 · answer #2 · answered by Willnotlietoyou 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its normal for him to act that way, he is obviously worried something will happen to her. If the boyfriend doesn't know her friend well, of course he is going to be worried. If they really want to improve their relationship, she should introduce her friend to him, and he should kindly make them know that if they mess round w/ her girl, they must confront him.
2006-12-11 11:53:51 · answer #3 · answered by A0Dki11z 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds insecure, but maybe he knows her better than you do, maybe he has REASONS to be like that.
2006-12-11 14:01:40 · answer #4 · answered by More Lies & More Smoke Screens 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋