my bf of 3 days dad just had a heart attack n is having surgery done 2night. Also, my friend attempted suicide yesterday n was sooooo close 2 dying. Most of my friends don't like my bf n r ignoring me n him and r making fun of him n of us being 2gether n some of my friends r really mad bcuz they asked me out n i rejected them n said yes 2 my current bf who i havn't known half as long as them but like him a lot cuz we can relate 2wards each other. Can ne1 relate 2 me or give me advice and ur opinions. I wud greatly appritiate it. THANKS!
2006-12-11 11:46:31 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sounds like youve got alot on your plate. So you dont know your bf as well as your other friends. Keep in mind whoes most important to you and whether its worth losing (if you are) a friendship. As for your bfs dad, this is a time when he needs you, if he/you dont know eachother, this is a chance he can see how much you care for him, call him right now and talk to him to see how youre doing, tell him your problems, let him share his, dont pressure him, remember this is bonding time, he needs you.
2006-12-11 11:51:53 · answer #1 · answered by Audrey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry for what happened! Summer of 2004, my sister tried to attempted suicide and my dad always has heart attacks and it gets very stressful.
OK, well right now i am going to tell you something very personal and tell you everything that is going through my life.
After that summer my sister told the doctor's that my dad had sexually abused her and they weren't sure if it was true, so they put her in a foster home. In 3 months a person called and said they were going to put me in a foster home also. i was in a foster home for 1 month and a week and my aunt and uncle took me to live with them for a while. We went to court and they said that my dad was guilty and my sister said that just to get out of the house. while this whole thing, i was not able to see my dad or even talk to him. 6 months after that we went to court again and the judge told us that i can see my dad now but my uncle or aunt has to be with me at all times. and know i am at this point where i can only see my dad when i am with my uncle or aunt.
this might not been what you really wanted but i told you my life story (well 2 years of my life) and i hope everything goes well with your boyfriend and all. If you ever what to email me and know more about my story you can. my email address is cute_little_rubberducky@yahoo.com
Well i hope that helped you. and hope it goes well. LIFE SUCKS!
2006-12-11 20:05:50 · answer #2 · answered by emily 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is the vicious cycle Girl meets boy Girl leaves friends for boy Girl gets dumped and has friends back to rescue her.
2006-12-11 19:49:26 · answer #3 · answered by 2strongfor2long 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first i would like to say I'm sorry to hear about your bfs dad and your friend. you have alot going on right now and my suggestion would be to follow your heart. you should also pray about it GOD can work miracles. remember this is your life not your friends. if they were your true friends they would not be giving you a hard time about it they would let you make your own decision on who you wanted to date. i really hope this helps. good luck and GOD BLESS YOU!!!!!!!!!
2006-12-11 19:53:38 · answer #4 · answered by toots2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow! you have a lot of problems, im sorry. well your friend needs you the most. try to keep him/her happy and try to prevent anything like that from happening. and if you really like this guy then your friends shouldnt care. and if your friends dont understand then they arent your real friends. i suggest you just let this friends vs. boyfriend thing go on like this. your friends will understand one day that you really like him. i hope i helped!
2006-12-11 19:54:02 · answer #5 · answered by maryam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to decide if your friends come first or your boyfriend. You have to choose what would make you happy. That is part of growing up.
2006-12-11 19:49:45 · answer #6 · answered by goodbye 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well dont listen to what other people say if you really love ths guy you wont let anything get in they way of yalls luv
2006-12-11 19:49:52 · answer #7 · answered by magdaly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweety, my advise to you is to not worry about boys and focus more on your spelling
2006-12-11 19:48:58 · answer #8 · answered by sissy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What???????
2006-12-11 19:48:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋