Does this make me a loser?

Question

I'm sitting here, alone when I could be going after this girl I like. Im drinking bud light, answering questions on yahoo answers. Listening to Billie Jean by Michael Jackson. I'm f-ing starving, but too lazy to cook. I should be studing for my general and airframe oral and practical, but am too interested in doing nothing! Should I be concerned with myself? It all fell apart when I quit smoking, so should I pick up the smoking again?! OOH, Smooth Criminal...

Answer 1

Greetings future A+P Ive been one in the business for 27 years now and guess what, Sitting here answering questions, thinking about cereal for dinner and girls only like mechanics when their cars are broken, sooooo maybe... maybe not.. before you finish up on your A+P know this I spent the first 17 years on grave shift.until I had enough seniority to get to days lived thru layoffs as the airline industry cycled every few years and always regretted not becoming an auto dealer mechanic working day shift and having weekends off. The only thing I can see that might really fit in the loser category is the Bud Light and the music :-) to many good beers out there to be drinking that p water. best of luck I will probably be turning over a job to you soon enough.

D

Answer 2

Well I don't think you are a loser. It sounds like you are depressed. You don't really have anything else to do. There's nothing wrong with kicking back and drinking some bear sometimes. Just don't base your whole life on it. As for smoking if you quit which I must say is great no don't start back up. That's not going to salve your problems. If your hungry and don't want to cook then order something. Make it a win, win situation instead of Win and lose. As for this girl you like. If you really like her then go and tell her. What are you waiting for. I would give it a try. The worst that can happen is she tells you no that she doesn't like you back. And if that happens then find someone else you like. You only live once so you might as well live it to it's fullest. Also about the girl I would do it fast before someone else gets her.For your studding go on ahead and relax first before you start in on work. It's probably better that way. So your not so tense when you do decided to study. Good luck with everything. Think about it things could be alot worse. And remember your not a loser.

Answer 3

Keep kicking the smoking but start working on that girl! Maybe it's just your time to be lazy. That's what I'm doing - nothing at all. If you like the girl - Go For It! Better to give it a chance then to wonder what could have been. And Michael is the **** no matter what anyone says. You'll survive without food and you'll quit being lazy when your REALLY hungry. Try studying a little bit here and a bit there instead of a big session. Answer a question study a thing or two - compromise.

Answer 4

You are just feeling like a loser because you are disapointed that you are not taking action to get what you want.
You're not really a loser. You will go after her when you feel ready to. All in good time. However, don't wait too long, then you might lose her to someone else. Then you will really feel like a loser. But timing is everything you gotta make sure you are psyched up enpough to woo her.

Answer 5

Hey
First of all: no it doesnt make you a loser. lol
Second: don't start smoking again. its really hard to quit and its awesome that you did!
to me it just sounds like you need a new hobby! Is there a sport you like to do? The more exercise you get and the more you get yourself into new activities, the more energy you'll have and the less you'll feel lazy. it also helps you concentrate when you need to study!!
if you like michael jackson type music, you could just be goofy and dance to a song once in a while. and maybe you could give that girl a call =)

Answer 6

For a lot of people, when they quit smoking, they feel depression and laziness. Don't be afraid, it will be fine, just don't smoke again, because if you decide to quit later on, the same thing will happen. Get into the habit of doing things your own.. It doesn't make you a loser to listen to Michael Jackson! You can't just "go after this girl you like". This is a natural state, I have gone through them. (Although, I haven't smoked, my Dad has).

Answer 7

Hey, you are sitting there, not smoking drinking light beer and helping answer other people's questions. Doesn't sound like a loser to me. Who knows if you'd be better going after that girl. If you have to think about it she's peobably not the right one.

Answer 8

I should finish vacuuming my apartment (which is for the most part clean already) but I decided to sit down smoke a cigarette and answer your question instead. We should both stop procrastinating and do what needs to be done. Forget the girl (for now) and study.

Your not a loser (as far as I know) your just being lazy.

Answer 9

Nope,

Doesn't make you a loser unless you do it day in, day out - for days or weeks on end...

I am concerned about studying though... I mean when are they? I used to delay until the last few days, or even the night before, to study...

But don't start smoking again for f^^ks sake...

Just my .01

-dh

Answer 10

Maybe you should just try to handle one thing at a time.

I am sitting alone at home waiting for the football game to start, listening to nothing and went into the kitchen and ate a roll. As far as smoking...are you happier smoking or happier not smoking? As far as your school work it says that you should read just before you go to bed at night...and then study again in the morning. Besides why isn't she sitting with you? Or why aren't you with her?