Whoever,
I like my best friend's sister! Should I tell her in person ( I'd prefer this ), through one of her friends, a note, etc.; or not at all?
It was established early this year that we're friends, not just another part in life. ( Example : I should be calling her a friend right now, not "my best friend's sister" ) Anyway, I want to tell her, but without disturbing anything between someone else and... myself.
Im a 3 or 4 yr famly frend.
~I should wait it out, to see if I'm fooling myself?~
I've had the same feelings for about the two past years, but it's been weighing more on me lately.
~I should talk to my best friend about it first?~
Erm, explain this one, please! He's been pointing things out for a while, saying she acts differently around/toward me; and has made no attempt to keep/tell me away ( almost opposite from what I pick up ) ... I don't know how to pour it out in front of him, other than being quite simple about it.
Thank you for any input!
2006-12-11 11:23:26 · 5 answers · asked by Mr Wrong 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Okay then, just tell her brother first, right? Well, how do I get around to that without disrupting my situation? I can't just tell him in class, I don't feel like any of my classmates should know atm; but, there's more than enough time at lunch and the drive back to his house... I have no idea how to whip it out! Just thinking about having to use notes makes me feel ornery, I don't want this to appear to be a joke.
Seriously, is the only way to ~say~ it : "Just a sec, I have to tell you something--- I like so-and-so," then brace for any criticism?
2006-12-11 15:18:43 · update #1
Talk it out with your friend, he was your friend first before you met his sister, if you do start a relationship it will impact your friend as well. Sounds like she does like you and your friend does not mind either. Good luck.
2006-12-11 11:31:20 · answer #1 · answered by Die S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, I screwed my best friends sister for 2 years! The family still loves me, and I consider them all family still. Just work on the sister and everything will work its self out in the long run!
2006-12-11 19:27:27 · answer #2 · answered by Steve-o 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think you should tell your best friend and then tell the girl and if shes been acting differently around you that should tell you that she might feel the same way about you
2006-12-11 19:29:49 · answer #3 · answered by tice1994 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DONT do it friend ship iss more important buddie
2006-12-11 19:26:30 · answer #4 · answered by natrual flirt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell her but remember that friendship is more important
2006-12-11 19:24:56 · answer #5 · answered by J-Dub 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋