this may be kinda hard question. At my school there's this girl whose a sorta flirt, but for some reason she seems to like me more. for example when me and my friend were messing around she was like jokingly to my friend "hey! that's my man" and then she smiled at me. Also whenever i look at her in class and she looks back she'll do a funny little finger wave. She does this with other guys but she only does the finger thing back at me as far as i can tell. Also she hugs other guys in the hall but she doesn't hug me when she sees me. I don't know if that's because that's the only time she sees them during the day or what. Today we were talking about relationships (my friend brought it up) and she said "well i could date any1 if i wanted to" in a snotty way.Yeahhh that's basically it. i'm asking this because we have a lot in common but also her flirtacious attitude is confusing me. I dont want to ask her out and then have her respond like "You thought i was serious?" Can you please help?
2006-12-11 11:18:12 · 10 answers · asked by Rich 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ask someone else out, go out with them and you will see if she is really interested in you... for real
2006-12-11 11:34:24 · answer #1 · answered by blackbeauty1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls will be difficult! If she already feels like she can have anyone she wants then honestly whats the point. Do you care about her? Does she make you smile just thinking about her or are other things happy when you think about her? You should want someone to want you the way you want them and she seems to think everyone wants her - EEWW! If she's not THE ONE then I say put your heart and feelings on hold and have fun with it. If she notices other guys notice other girls. Girls notice when they aren't getting attention by their usual Flirt Buddies. Sometimes a girl will cause this kind of confusion for a guy just to make her self feel better. If it's nothing serious don't get your feeling involved. Theirs other fish in the sea!
2006-12-11 19:25:14 · answer #2 · answered by lost*cause 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's just a hooch. I have a lot of those in my school. She'll just play you man. Find someone better than a flirt, you seem to be more interested in a serious relationship and not wanting to get effed over then just a few weeks of fun and get your heartbroken. If you think about dating her... itll turn you off of her, she'll just turn you into a jelous boyfriend cuz she'll always be flirting with your friends! Which is brutal, good luck though! (i think you have better taste than just a tease)
2006-12-11 19:22:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her one on one. She's more likely to respond honestly when it's just the two of you around. Don't pressure her into doing anything. If she really likes you then she will let you know, if not im sorry. I hope this helps, good luck.
2006-12-11 19:23:18 · answer #4 · answered by Love_Forever 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont know what to say... there a girl like that in my class and i am afraid to say aanything be cause she my say you thought i was serious??.....
2006-12-11 19:23:09 · answer #5 · answered by obvlious_to_the_obvious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she is like that now, she always will be. Can you imagine dateing her? You'd never have her attention. You'd never know if she was looking at you or your friend!
2006-12-11 19:22:25 · answer #6 · answered by Tara C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
show her your deep side. if she's a little less superficial than she seems, she'll prolly show it back. especially if you're alone with her.
2006-12-11 19:21:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you will never know unless you ask --- talk to her see what happens from there
2006-12-11 19:22:09 · answer #8 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shes messin with your head
2006-12-11 19:21:45 · answer #9 · answered by star 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just aske he how she feels about you
2006-12-11 19:21:24 · answer #10 · answered by sweetmotherofgod2006 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋