Ok Im 25 he is 30 we have been dating now for 2 months we are not as of yet bf/gf, he has a fantasy to see two girls get it on. He and I are having sex and its great. I would like to fill this fantasy for him. But what I need to know is if I do this will he still see me as girlfriend material? Or is he just using me? I know he like me and wants to have a realtionship, but is he seeing me as just a good for now girl or will I have potiental in being the there forever girl for him.. Any of your adivce is helpful and thanks in advance.
2006-12-11 11:11:56 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My fantasy is richer and my girlfriend refuses to participate too:
I am tied up on an “X” shaped cross dressed in red velvet, like Santa, horizontally positioned one meter over the floor, while a virgin girl of eighteen, standing over my face is pissing on me. Another girl has my member in her mouth, biting gently the glans while a third one, dressed in a nurse uniform gives me an enema with “Cordon Rouge” champagne.
Girls, girls, participate!!! Our respect for you will be greater.
2006-12-13 21:58:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
because of the fact which you're shy, why dont you pass the 'secret admirer' course in case you think of shes not relationship anybody? do superb little stuff (be sure you errors on the edge of being candy and not creepy, and 'superb' and not overly romantic) over some weeks and in specific circumstances provide her a understanding grin once you pass her interior the corridor. she'll discern it out no rely how complicated to attempt to maintain it a secret. besides the fact that that is unlikely, if the worst happens and he or she tells you shes relationship somebody and not fascinated, you could purely say she regarded kinda unhappy and you have been doing it to help her smile. bear in mind that ladies folk communicate, and all her acquaintances are going to be quietly wishing somebody might lavish such interest on them, so which you will score factors no rely the way it seems.
2016-10-18 03:24:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple...only do this if it's something you want to do as well...don't do this just for the sake of satisfying his fantasy...he's not necessarily using you because he has a fantasy and has shared it with you, but he's also not looking to be exclusive with you, apparently. This relationship probably won't last forever if you go down this road right now...fantasies like this are easier to share after you've built a high level of trust and intimacy with your partner...
Good luck whatever you decide to do!
2006-12-11 11:19:30 · answer #3 · answered by out_too_lunch 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen all guy fantasy about stuff like that and dont put yourself out like that or he may take advantage. So wait about another 2 months
then if thinks you are not enough for him then do it one time and that way he can start thinking of you in a different way or you can dump him.
2006-12-11 11:20:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him before hand and be honest about it. Tell him how you feel and if he is only there for one thing then you know what to do. Get rid of him!!!!!! Maybe you could full fill his dream later on down the track when you are actually officially a couple so that way you feel more confortable!! Just be honest and if you feel comfortable with him then go for it!!
2006-12-11 11:15:27 · answer #5 · answered by pqr 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he respected you he would not be asking you to do that kind of thing. You have only been going out for 2 months and he is already treating you like a piece of meat to make himself happy. It appears to me that he isn't concerned about how you might feel about it. that tells me that he is using you and he does not think of you as a forever girlfriend but as a convenience. DUMP HIM
2006-12-11 11:19:31 · answer #6 · answered by kimber1731 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you are not that kind of girl, and that you have more respect for yourself. more then what he has for you! If you do this, you are doing it for him. He does not care about you, you are a toy to him, who will do anything he tells you to do! He is not relationship material, trust me, and one who asks you to do something like that, is a player, and he is thinking only of himself! I want you to find someone, who will be satisfied with just you! Have a great holiday!
2006-12-11 11:18:47 · answer #7 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't fall for this, this is just a pretext to try and get both of you in bed at the same time. Unless you really want to do it for yourself, don't go along. Otherwise you will harbor resentment that will eventually come back.
2006-12-11 11:14:42 · answer #8 · answered by Al 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
So you are porking him at only 2 months and totally willing to do whatever he wants in the hope he wants to have you forever. Wake up, girlfriend. Where are you in this? Why are you so willing to just do this guy's bidding?
2006-12-11 11:15:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's really pretty obvious he's using you for sex and is being incredibly selfish too. I think since you are wise enough to question his motives, you could be wise enough to realize you deserve much better, and not a lover who is all about what he wants.
2006-12-11 11:17:08 · answer #10 · answered by Cuppycake♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋