I am so tired of ni99as tellin girls in general that they love em...but really dont mean that crap.....and say that you mean everything to them but they continue to hurt you......then they wanna say that you are the only girl they wanna b with, but yet they have 1 or 2 other girls that they talkin to on the side......or got a notha girlfriend out of state or gone for a while.....I am seriously tired of being played....i am tired of me and all these other girls gettin there feelings hurt and heart broken because of ni99as tryna b playas......They are not worth it......im scared to get in another relationship b/c i dnt wanna b lie to or cheated on anymore......If i get with someone i want them to b faithful and honest and want me for more than my looks and assets......I am more than that..but these days itz all they are looking for and they dont really care about anything else.....please you guys i need answers why do men or shall i say BOYS do this????
2006-12-11 11:08:19 · 11 answers · asked by l0$t AnD ConFu$3d 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It seems like your not dating the right people. You should attempt to go outside of our own element.
2006-12-11 11:20:08 · answer #1 · answered by latinanena36 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are headed down the right road because you are getting fed up. BUT if you are using the term "ni99as" then obviously, you have never dated a man. Once you date man, that term will not be used to describe the male species. You will know the difference between boys and men then.
Platinum rule number 1 is: Boys will treat you the way you allow them to treat you!!!!!! A boy can smell vulnerability and insecurity. A man can smell confidence and security. That is what a real man is looking for. The one thing that I find with women is that we know within a matter of a few weeks that the guy is not right for us but we will stay in it. If you love yourself, then you leave as soon as you know you can not do it. Don't stay based on the hope factor. It never works out.
2006-12-11 11:28:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They do it because they are immature and just want in our pants. I dated a guy for two months and he kept tellin me that he loved me and he wanted to get with this, I asked him when my birthday was and things like that. You know, stuff we talk about all the time. He couldn't answer any of my questions but said it didn't matter he still loved me and we should "hook up". So if you want a guy who really cares, look for that sweet, shy guy that is afraid to say he loves you because he wants to mean it. I found one or two so they do exist.
2006-12-11 11:16:59 · answer #3 · answered by Nicky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well personally they tryin to get a good reputation and they act all hard so every1 know about them. I think if u want a guy to not play you he has to try to spend a lot of time with u try to let you have a good time and feels rlly bad wen they did sumthin rong. mabe ur hangin out with the rong ppl i not sayin go with the nerds but try diff varieties and ppl who really lookin for the same thing u are
2006-12-11 11:16:14 · answer #4 · answered by Tim 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess they do that because they are immature, and want to be with ALL of the girls. The can't make up their mind, and they want to be "wanted" by most of the girls, so they just try to flirt with all of them. They want to be probably popular amongst other females, but if they act like players, they'll soon find out that it's not working so well... I guess they just need to grow up, and get real. I agree with you on this.... they NEED to make up their minds LOL!
2006-12-11 11:28:38 · answer #5 · answered by lalala <3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They do it because they're immature little pricks. Plus, we're animals. Boys want to 'spread their seed'.
They aren't all like that, though. I'm guessing you're in middle school or high school, so like 90% of them there are. Just date without expectations until you're older and boys start growing emotionally.
2006-12-11 11:11:11 · answer #6 · answered by ....... 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because most guys are idiots and think with their second head. They just want to screw you and don't really care about other's feelings.
But that does not mean all boys are like that ^^;
2006-12-11 12:04:41 · answer #7 · answered by Sui Generis 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh it is so annoying you purely would desire to be as type as achieveable and tell him which you purely don't sense an analogous yet you nevertheless opt for to be acquaintances you would be unable to help the type you sense if he's a sturdy guy he will comprehend
2016-10-05 04:51:06 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honesty is the best policy, so honestly they only do it for sex. What ever it takes to bed a girl, a guy will do.
2006-12-11 11:48:53 · answer #9 · answered by andyburnham 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because some guys are idiots. However, I can promise you, not all guys are jerks. Some do mean it.
2006-12-11 11:12:22 · answer #10 · answered by Nova 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋