How do I change? homedad screwed in the head!?

Question

Hi, I am a stay at home dad, love my 2 children as any parent does, but i do have MANY issues i really need resolved as i am destroying my family, ANY ADVICE IS GREATLY APPRECIATED here goes

1) I am incredibly attracted to my partners sister, mainly because she is a forbidden fruit, with great boobs
2) I am depressed about money or lack therof and I am impossible to talk to
3) sex life is near non existant, from her end, but it must have something to do with me
4) I am getting more and more drawn to swingers and the like, we have a 3some before, she went out one night and returned with a guy, I didnt mind, i liked it, but now she wont return with a girl as promissed and it is unfair considering, her picking up a guy was not planned
5) I am looking at a life as a single man as a very attractive proposal at the minute, I am just miserable where i am in life now, and i feel it is all to do with my partner, she is alway mad at something, sometimes she yells coz i made dinner

Answer 1

You sound bored witless! Can you get a job? Part time? You need something to think about other than your partners sister's boobs. Forget the treesome or your 'partnership' is heading for the rocks. Your sex life sucks because you don't feel like a man anymore right?

Answer 2

What you both need is a marriage counselor, a three some is not going to help your marriage, and I think if you do the other girl thing, if you think things are bad now, wait until you do that. You need to work on all of your issues, Now you know for a fact her sister is hands off. What you need to be doing is thinking of getting a job! it seems as if you have too much time on your hands! Have a great holiday!

Answer 3

if the screw head is flush with the exterior,drill the properly off the screw,get rid of the outer metal piece,then try a vice grips on the shaft.if the metal products are metal,you could warmth them with a torch to loosen the screw shaft. frequently eliminating the screw head and the outer plate takes the stress off the shaft of the screw.

Answer 4

Try being more affectionate with her and youll get what you want, instead of bringing new people into your sex life, cause that just causes jelousy, try doing different things/positions and be passionate about your sex sessions, Women want sex to mean something. If that doesn't work, go to a "marriage counceller" its ok even if your not married. PS, get a new/better job. Its no ones fault that your stressed about your own money problems.

Answer 5

Neither of you are happy. This isn't going to work for either of you,
As far as your threesome...Different strokes for different folks...Personally I don't understand swingers at all...Why would anyone want to share there partner?
Better go check your dinner I think it might be getting as cold as the relationship

Answer 6

I'm sorry to hear that you're horny, but remember that you're a father. You got yourself into fatherhood, so find a way to live with that. If you can't imagine your children having threesomes, I suggest you shouldn't pursue such things as well.

As far as getting yourself out of this hole, I say:
- get a job (a well paying one)
- spend your money wisely (create a budget and stick with it!)
- get a new hobby (maybe work out to relieve stress)
- don't give up

Answer 7

the first thing i would do if i were you is start going to church somewhere. and turn it over to GOD nothing is to big or impossible for him to handle and fix. GOD doesn't like divorces so he will do his part to help y'all if y'all are willing to try and help your selves. he wont do all the work for you. good luck and GOD BLESS YOU BOTH AND YOUR KIDS AS WELL.

Answer 8

That why they have divorice. Get out life's too short. Oh find a freaking job first.

Answer 9

talk to her or see a marriage counselor, sometimes it is not meant to be forever.

Answer 10

i couldnt finish reading that crap please get a job let the lady stay at home the kids will be happy yoor lazy