I met this guy through a friend one night, and we wound up making out. I wouldn't go any further with him, but I think that was fine with him. Either way he wanted my number before I left, so I gave it to him. He never called. I just figured he wasn't interested. Then one night I went out with my girlfriend and we decided to call, I just got a message machine, so I left a message and hung up. She later talked to his friend and he said he had a girlfriend. A week later the guy I made out with text messaged my friend asking where I was cuz he was into me. She told him he was lame cuz he had a girlfriend. He denied it, then his friend also denied it, and they told me to call the guy. So I called him and left the conversation that he was going to call on Thursday. Well, it's now Monday and no call. What the heck is up with this guy if he's supposedly interested? I've only ever called him those two times over a 3 week period, so I don't think i'm the crazy one here. Advice?
2006-12-11 11:01:06 · 16 answers · asked by A 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
At this point, it is not the matter of "does he have a gf?" I think if he was really into you, he would not be making you wonder about his intentions are and take the risk of you slipping away. So, I know this sounds harsh but move on and don't waste another minute thinking about him. If he really want you, he will come around and find you. Meanwhile, spend your precious time on finding someone who makes you feel secure.
2006-12-11 11:10:28 · answer #1 · answered by Sweetie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello, your current girlfriend may or may not have a point. Consider this: how would you feel if your current girlfriend was spending some time with an ex boyfriend? Even if you would think it is okay she does not, and part of loving a person is considering what makes them feel uncomfortable and doing the opposite. Changing and doing things that another person likes does not necessarily mean that you are changing who you are; it just means that you are taking another persons feelings, likes, or dislikes into consideration. (Normally when in a relationship such as this, this is the case) My advice: Limit your contact with your ex girlfriend. Your ex girlfriend is in your past and your current girlfriend is your present. Am not saying or suggesting you should dismiss your ex girlfriend altogether but your ex should be treated the same way you would treat another guy friend. (it should strictly just be friendship from afar; given the history you guys have with one another.) Hope things work out, and I hope this advice helped.
2016-05-23 06:55:56 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't want to be negative, but there is something not right going on there. Either way, he has a girlfriend, or is in the middle of a breakup or new romance, and you are just being used for a possible booty call!
2006-12-11 11:05:48 · answer #3 · answered by mrm 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't return your calls? Men get wrapped up and forget thinks all the time. But I think he would at least call you and give you a definitive answer. But honey I think you should hope for the best and be prepared for the worst. I pray that your girlfriend will be there for you.
2006-12-11 11:06:08 · answer #4 · answered by e_piphany214 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget him. If he's that flakey he's probably a stoner and would be a pretty bad boyfriend. There are more fish in the sea.
2006-12-11 11:05:34 · answer #5 · answered by Freddy Finger 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think he is playing you. I think when he is bored or has nothing else to do he tries to get a hold of you but any other time he doesn't know you exist.
Forget him and move on.
2006-12-11 11:03:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Meet him in person and be frank with him. You are never going to get anywhere with second hand info.
2006-12-11 11:03:49 · answer #7 · answered by Fallen Angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get over him cuz most probaly he has a gurl thats y he dosnt pay as much attention 2 you like you want him 2 hes not worth it most guys are like that when they get bored they go to the other gurl so dump his azz already well you know wat you have to do so yea good luck!!!!
2006-12-11 11:05:37 · answer #8 · answered by magdaly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. He has a girlfriend.
2. Your question stole a good five minutes of my life.
2006-12-11 11:03:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
maybe just give up or call again. he might have a problem with his answering machine
2006-12-11 11:03:56 · answer #10 · answered by Monki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋