.... but i'v never orgasmed. i'v come close.....i think..... but is there anything i or he can do to increase my chances of having one?
2006-12-11 10:58:05 · 10 answers · asked by lil_lady 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You need to work on foreplay and maybe have him rub your clit while ******* you.
2006-12-11 11:02:33 · answer #1 · answered by acuity007 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lady, getting an orgasm is something that has both mind and body involved. First get into the act only when both of you are ready for it mentally, next having a premature orgasm or not having any is also related to the stress level and many other factors. So, the best is to do this for a few times and see that the results are better at a later stage...get involved into speaking to each other and knowing how the other feels, have a lot of foreplay with you on the receieveing end rather than the giving and then progress into playing with his tool and then get to the main course. Reduce the excitement in him and work on increasing yours and you shall see that it does work better. Its not magical it takes a while for things to flip over and be great. Hang on and enjoy it. Wish you both luck and happy times.
2006-12-11 22:22:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been around for a bit and had my share of sex with many different partners. Sometimes you find that whichever way you twist turn or lean the required bits don't touch. My last girlfriend could do seven orgasms in an hour with clitoral stimulation but the one before just found it irritating. I had a long relationship with a girl and neither of us could make the other orgasm, so she would get on top and go for hers and then I would get on top and do my thing. I've only known two girls who came regularly with just penis penetration. So you see everybody is different. If he takes less than twenty minutes to *** it's probably his fault but he won't thank you for saying so.
2006-12-11 11:41:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
can you orgasm on your own? Try some mutual masturbation. Let him know when you are hitting your peak. Try taking longer in foreplay, take yourself to the edge time and time again then go for the main event let yourself go.
Do you feel tense when you are with your bf? maybe spend more time together naked. Maybe take your time one evening slowly undressing each other, then some sensual massage with scented candles and soft music in the background. Increase your comfort zone, this will lead to a more relaxed state of mind when you are having sex.
2006-12-11 11:13:27 · answer #4 · answered by Litmus180 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oral sex works for a lot of women, may be try having him start you off with that. Or may be longer love making sessions were you start off slower and just take more time with the four play. You could try toys too. Good luck
2006-12-11 11:04:29 · answer #5 · answered by SOLO KING 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, try this, the two of ye go out and do a booze on bacardi and cokes, or maybe even vodkas!
Go home afterwards when your nicley drunk and fcuk each other sensless....
if you can't orgasim after that you may give up...remember Mr Bacardi had 14 kids....he must have know something.....
2006-12-11 14:10:06 · answer #6 · answered by ohwiseone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Spend more time on the old forplay and try all postions
like lie on your frount and take it from behind no complants with that one!!!
2006-12-11 11:01:50 · answer #7 · answered by dan T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk and take your time when making whip @ss i mean love just tell him how you like it and be in control... hope this helps ho ho ho merry christmas and a bottle of beer
2006-12-11 11:04:33 · answer #8 · answered by chris b 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him to give u a head then u will probably splash everything on him
2006-12-11 17:50:57 · answer #9 · answered by combs 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can you do it solo? If so tell him how you do it.
2006-12-11 11:01:12 · answer #10 · answered by Basket-santa 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋