well i have this boyfriend, and well he's not much of a price to me well sometimes. he hangs up on me, his phone is always busy and he is always hitting on other girls ( well most of the time ) he doesnt treat me like his girl sometimes and its kind of fustrating and sometimes he doesnt trust like this boy at school name ray, was troubling me saying he's going to tell my bf that i was cheating on me just to get me mad and i said well if you bad do it. So about 2 days after i asked my friend to ask him what he getting me for christmas cause we werent so close those two days so when my friend ask he said a boy told him i was cheating on him and guess what it was ray. someone told me he was cheating on me with this girl amber and he is always hanging with her and doesnr ask good sometimes when i call and LOVES to hang up and its very bad on me do you think hes cheating?
2006-12-11 10:57:48 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
oh yeah, he doesnt talk too sweet he talks rough to me like he says WA, CAALL MA LATA, WA YA WANT ect
2006-12-11 10:59:06 · update #1
Get rid of him! He sounds no good at all. You deserve so much better. If he doesn't make you happy or treat you with any respect, then get rid of him.
2006-12-11 11:00:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may or may not be cheating, but I absolutely refuse to call someone whom I have neither met nor learned the whole story from a cheater. TRY TALKING TO HIM! That is the best advice u can be given, and the best u can receive. This approach is simple yet effective, which leads to answers. Also, if he is cheating, he is obviously a jerk who does not know what he wants and cant commit to a relationship long. This means trouble, as u should dump him if he is so stupid and blatant. I would speak to him personally and try to get answers from him, because sometimes, ur friend MIGHT be jealous and trying to break u two up. I'm not accusing ur friend(s) of lying, jealousy, or back-stabbing, I'm just establishing a point which I hope was well received.
2006-12-11 19:05:42 · answer #2 · answered by revup 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all. You are still young and as you get older, you will experience different types of relationships so losing this one is not going to make you or break you. What he is doing is a form of manipulation which can be a form of abuse. Obviously, he treats you the way you let him treat you. The BEST thing you can do is to concentrate on you!!! NEVER EVER SETTLE!!! Love who you are. Be confident in who you are. Also, since you are even asking the question, you already know the answer.
2006-12-11 19:08:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im not going to say that he is cheating on you because you never know. But the fact that yall might be breaking apart is a fact. It is not a good realationship when he talks to you that way and don't hang around you and most of all don't trust you that is the biggest part in a realationship. So talk to him and ask him what's up and for him to tell you the truth.
2006-12-11 19:04:18 · answer #4 · answered by mcneill132003 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey girl, i think that he might be cheating on you but dont acuse him off cheating unless you have proof that he is. and when you do have proof then go for it and acuse him.you dont deserve to be cheated on at all!!you have probably treated him very well and he hangs up on you when ur talking on the phone and he hits on other girls!wow!i would say hes lucky to have you as a g/f because alot of girls would think that hes cheating and then go and dump him.anyway so i hope you make the rgiht decision!good luck and i wish u the best!you dont deserve to be treated like garbage thats just tossed around!!i know what it feels like!so good luck!! :)
2006-12-11 19:09:35 · answer #5 · answered by roxygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shemere:
Maybe you should use all this energy on your school work and get the best education availabe to you and forget what appears to be a not so good relationship. Take control of your life and by doing so you would not have to resort to asking a question like this online. Be all you can be Shemere.
Best wishes,
2006-12-11 19:07:43 · answer #6 · answered by Fresh choice 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well for one I wouldn't put up with that kind of treatment. But your bf seems to be trying to tell you something. And that something is when I call you and want you be there for me. I wouldn't be there for you. If I was you I would have kicked him to the curb the first time he treated me that way. HE is just wanting you to be there for when he wants you. And don't expect him to change. Or else he would have. I would go find me someone else who treats you better than that. Or if you want to chat ot talk IM me
2006-12-11 19:03:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl you better dump him,but its your choice.Hes not acting like what all women should be treated like.I mean hes not a gentleman you deserve better and he will find his true love someday.Theres a 50 50 percent chance when making a guess like that even on facts you should still talk to him.
2006-12-11 19:01:05 · answer #8 · answered by MaMu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I read the first few lines and was stunned.
Regardless of everything else, if he does not treat you with respect, then why waste your time with him?
Hanging up, hitting on others, is disrespectful. Relationships are built on respect. DUMP him and enjoy being young and single.
2006-12-11 19:01:42 · answer #9 · answered by TT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Judging by your tone and choice of words (DUMP), I think you've already come to a decision but you're looking for some incouragement. Well, you've made the right choice, so don't feel guilty afterwards, if you're being honest about him, the he deserves it!
2006-12-11 19:00:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋