after how many dates should you have sex?

Answer 1

1

Answer 2

On the first date.

Answer 3

Well, this depends on how old you are...if you are in HS still then you should wait til graduation. If you are out of school I would say wait until 3 or 4 dates to see if you really like the person so there are no regrets later...besides if you have sex to early then you are labeled easy and no one wants to be with someone that will have sex with anyone!

Answer 4

First date.

Answer 5

The number of dates is irrelevant, its the love, passion, and comfortableness u have for this person. # of dates should never determine something that deep and risky, first make sure the person is free of AIDS or other STD's. And, practice safe sex if possible, unless married and/or planning on starting a family.

Whatever the case, good luck with ur decision.

Answer 6

SEX is not a should have! The mentality that supports your line of questioning is the very reason you have so many issues about it. That you should even equate the number of times you have seen a female as to some sort of validity to demand sex shows zero understanding about male female relationships or the profoundness of sexual relationship between male and female!

All you want to do is put your penis into her, but that consequent to her is the possibility of a child!

You most likely do not care, but nature brings forth a life requiring the male input for it to grow into a mentally stable human being,
and nature leaves the female at the mercy of the male for emotional, physical and mental support. Even as a baby/child, son, you looked for this same support from your family (Mother and father)

I wonder how you would feel about your father asking his friends if after seeing your mother three times should he try to put his penis in her?

Answer 7

well for guys its always after the first date that we suggest. Before the date would be great to but doubt it. On a serious note it all depends on how you feel about the person. You should maybe just go for it on the 3rd or fourth date wait till you know the person a bit.

Answer 8

I think that it all depends on when you are ready.
I think that you should get to know her first, and then do it, but the choice is yours; just make sure that you won't regret it later.
Also, it's not like the number of dates matters, so after a certain number of dates don't be like "Oh its time cause 3 dates passed or whatever."

Answer 9

I would go for 3 dates, but also see how comfortable things are between you two, you need that comfort level to be right if its 3 dates or 13. I just try to follow this to save myself and that other person from being hurt later.

Answer 10

17