So we have been dating for almost 2 years. and as of late things have gotten a little sour in our relationship. There are things she says that I need to do in order for it to work, however I have tried 3 times already over the span of our relationship. she says this is our 4th time going through with this... and she is giving me another opporatunity. Over christmas break i will be with her for two weeks, and she says that I have to prove to her that things will work. What do you suggest I do?
Fancy Dinner?
Help her as much as I can?
2006-12-11 10:36:56 · 8 answers · asked by Kyle W 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dude...it sounds hopeless....get together and tell her it is not going to work as much as you would like it to.
2006-12-11 10:40:04 · answer #1 · answered by CK1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems to me that your girlfriend is quite happy to blame you for every single thing that has gone wrong in your relationship over the past two years.
What is she trying to tell you?
That she is totally blameless in all of this?!?
Who is she kidding?
Relationships are hard at the best of times.
It takes two people to make a relationship work.
It also takes two people to destroy it.
Communication is the key, as with every other situation.
Talk to your girlfriend on a serious level and make her understand what is at stake here.
The mere fact that you are on here asking this type of question proves that you are serious about her and your relationship so make it work!
Do whatever it takes!
But don`t be a doormat and don`t let her walk all over you!
Good luck to both of you & enjoy your Xmas break!
(P.S. By all means, take her to a fancy restaurant to talk things over if you can afford this type of extravagance! Women love to be dined & wined! I know I do!)
2006-12-11 10:57:56 · answer #2 · answered by Lolita Angel Rose Taylor-Kennedy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
something different then you've done before fancy dinner may be expensive but not always the right way maybe buy her a ferret helping as much as you can may work don;t be lazy do everything you can to show her your good enough and get her whatever it takes
2006-12-11 10:39:26 · answer #3 · answered by BlueCherubi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she's saying that u have to prove something to her she isn't the one for u! it's just like u saying if she really loved u she would f#@k u and that's not right! what I think u should do is can her!
2006-12-11 10:42:37 · answer #4 · answered by deadandstillivn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u take her out 2 dinner tell her u love her and mean it meet her preants and take her 2 the movie
2006-12-11 10:41:46 · answer #5 · answered by jana g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to everything that she says, don't argue, and maybe bring her a present of one of her favorites (like a favorite color or sport or something like that ) to show that you know her well
2006-12-11 10:42:28 · answer #6 · answered by Dancer101 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be very very nice and surprise her with nice stuff ry not to argue and let her have fun
2006-12-11 10:40:15 · answer #7 · answered by #1 joker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pretend that your dead. and if she is worried about you then she loves you. or jump off a bridge and then she will come to your funeral!
2006-12-11 10:42:35 · answer #8 · answered by bonbon452002 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋