My g/f just broke up with me today,We have been friends for over 9 years. I Feel it was my fault. She has a friend that is her ex. And she spends alot more time with the ex then me. I loved her and still love her with all my heart. But she will not pick up the phone when she is with her ex. In fact she goes on days with out picking up the phone for me. I was looking for the future for us so. I was driven by her happiness not mine. I think I was wrong for accusing her of being with her ex. I just did not know what else to think. I only see her once or twice a week and her ex sees her almost every day. I brought it up. I was tired of being second in her life when she was first. She broke up with me cause of me accusing her of being with her ex. Im heartbroken, I feel the world only judges a book by its cover and women wont see whats in the inside because there going to judge me on my looks. Im scared and almost sucidal could you please help me with advice.
2006-12-11 10:10:25 · 7 answers · asked by sincere 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No one is worth giving up on life for... out of respect she was wrong for continuing a relationship with an ex when she was in a relationship with another... no one in their right mind would put up with this... you were right to call her out on this relationship with her ex and her breaking up with youfor asking about it leads me to think they were more than just friends... everyone deserve a relationship where honestly and trust is the main atributes... just move on and if she really cares she'll come back around and when she does express you will not tolerate another man being as close to her as the ex bf was...
2006-12-11 10:22:51 · answer #1 · answered by Sandy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You were right to question the amount of time she spent with her ex. No-one would be happy with that. Was she looking for an excuse to end things do you think? You've done the right thing even though it hurts alot. Spend time with your friends, have you got someone other than this girl to talk to? You are a good looking guy youll soon find a woman who will treat you like you deserve to be treated, give it some time then try again. Youre well rid of her.
2006-12-11 18:16:38 · answer #2 · answered by Basket-santa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey man you got to calm down. Listen the only reason I read this website is because the girl of my dreams and my girlfriend of two years broke up with me recently, so I know how you feel. I'm still not over it, its hard to get out of bed in morning and rarely does an hour go by that I don't think about her, but as time as progressed things have gotten easier and I've begun to see thing much clearer. You sound like a good guy and there is a reason why her ex was ex, because things didn't work out with them and they probably won't work out now. It was not your fault!!!!! It sound like this girl was using you as an emotional cruch and your better than that. I know its scary, but keep your head up things are going to get easier, remeber out of sight out of mind, calling, emailing, or writing her only makes things harder in the long run. It may make you feel better at the time, but it will only piss you off if she doesn't pick up and will hurt your chances with her in the future.
2006-12-11 18:40:10 · answer #3 · answered by John Doe 1900 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OML listen being sucidal isn't going to help anything its only going to make things worse....but anyways it seems like to me u were being a little jealous and that u shouldn't have worried about it....And now u are just dealing with what has happened b/c of it.....but don't worry there are other people out there i promise u and somebody who is better off for u.....god has a plan and if u two are meant to be together u will be and if not u will find someone better...Best of luck!~!~!
2006-12-11 18:17:16 · answer #4 · answered by HelpMe123 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only thing you can do is deal with it; thats what I do all day, every day. Go out shooting, 200 rounds through a glock makes me feel good. Look up shooting ranges. Just think about how angry you were a few days ago, when she was blowing you off to hang with her ex! She is the bad guy here, remember that!
2006-12-11 18:22:18 · answer #5 · answered by Steve-o 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know EXACTLY how you feel, my gf is tossing my heart around like its a rag doll and it hurts... it hurts alot.
I have found that focusing on your work more and going to the gym and watching a favorite show really helps!!!
Good lucky man
2006-12-11 18:27:39 · answer #6 · answered by Kyle W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls ALWAYS make you feel like you are to blame! They're smart enough to convince you that you've done something wrong. Please, get back on you feet and get her off your mind. Play sports, workout, or anything else you like to do. God Bless
2006-12-11 18:15:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋