how do you use handcuffs while "messing around" with a guy? do you put both on the guy or one on you and one on the guy? helppp? i wanna use them really bad, but i don't know how!
2006-12-11 10:09:48 · 8 answers · asked by Veronica M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
u handcuf one of u to something and the other one does what ever they want
2006-12-11 10:12:34 · answer #1 · answered by iowadude92 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
And people say there's no innocence anymore. Anywho, they can be used any way you and your partner enjoy them. Experiment and talk about what you each liked and didn't like about various applications. Just be careful - hand cuffs are very hard and very small. Used inappropriately, they can cause damage. Try wrapping a sock (clean, please) around the wrist before applying the cuffs. Also, do not leave your partner's arms over his head for more than twenty minutes at a time. As the 'top' in this equation, you have a responsibility to take care of him, that means checking in verbally about how his arms and hands feels, paying attention to non-verbal cues that he may be uncomfortable, and being unselfish enough to stop, even when you're "this close" to orgasm, if he's not comfortable or not enjoying it. Be safe, be smart, have fun, and get tested.
2006-12-11 10:17:58 · answer #2 · answered by eschampion 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
When you use cuffs try to make sure they are not too tight especially if they are steel as they can damage the nerves in the wrists.
The best way is to use a nylon scarf or pantyhose and make sure they are not too tight.Also don't forget the blindfold as it heightens the anticipation greatly.Have funnnn.
On him.On you.Never together.
2006-12-11 10:17:23 · answer #3 · answered by racquel 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
being handcuffed to my partner sounds really hot. YOu could handcuff his hands behind his back. Or get 4 sets of restraints and tie him spread eagle, trust me hon he isn't getting out of that one, unless you let him out.
My girlfriend has snuck up on me while I am sleeping, so I don't even get to agree whether to be handcuffed or not. Never was so turned on in my life.
2006-12-11 11:03:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi well when me and my husband uses handcuffs, he usually puts them on me. Or if you wanted you could put them on him. Experiment its fun. Hope this helps
2006-12-11 10:16:25 · answer #5 · answered by marci-1967 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
put one on him and the other needs to be attached to something like the bed so he cant move, therefore you will need two sets of cuffs, GOOD LUCK
2006-12-11 10:15:32 · answer #6 · answered by duecesrwild22 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
any way you like, but I think the idea is to handcuff him to teh bed, so you can have your way with him, then you can do the laundry in peace!
lol
2006-12-11 10:20:46 · answer #7 · answered by head_banger_yyc 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Be married and ask your husband.
2006-12-11 10:12:48 · answer #8 · answered by aberzoza4 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋