i have 2 friends i use 2 date 1 is trying 2 get it rite &i love him the other1 i known 4 8yrs want2 marry me?

Question

the 1st one is so sweet but he's taking his time to get his life straight he wants to marry me 2 i am looking out for my furture as well as my happiness

Answer 1

It depends on what he did that he has to get his life straight and how much time he is taking and how long you are willing to wait and if he can get his life put back together because sometimes they can't. There is a lot of depends in that sentence and in the end only you know how much you love both of them and it is you that has to make the decision.☺