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Question

okay so this guy that i am totally crushing on LIKE IN LOVE WITH is dating another girl they've been goin out for bout 2-3 months but before they went out (like 2 days before) me and the guy were like all over eacother,, like making out idt nething further than that.. but now hes got this g/f and he still flirts with me mainly verbaly but every now and then hell grab me and shove me in the corner act like hes gonna do somthin but doesnt...
so my question is,,
do i just leave it alone (even though were paerfect for eachother) or do i try to go for him and i do,, how?

Answer 1

You are perfect for each other? And how do you measure that? Because he is a flirt and sexually taking advantage of you (and who else?) Would you want him to be dating you, and be all over the other girl? I hope not. Give this guy lots of space until he grows up and stops thinking with his penis. You want a real man, not someone you can never trust.
Again, why would you want him? I'm confused.

Answer 2

Hello, Why can't love be simple? Do you really think this guy is perfect for you?...He sounds like a player to me, if he already has a gf then why in the world is he flirting around with you? If you two started going together would you want him to act like that with another girl?..Well he would because he's done showed himself to be that kind of person. I know love is blind & when you get a crush on someone you only see him as perfect (been there)...but you've got to keep yor witts about you or you'll get burned (been there too)...anyway listen to your heart AND listen to your head & I hope this turns out ok for you....good luck...bye bye

Answer 3

Okay, listen up... think about it... he's going out with somebody, yet he still flirts with you. He's not breaking up with that person, but he's still flirting with you. Think abou this... if you were his girlfriend, and he was flirting the same way with somebody else, how would you feel? I don't think that would satisfy you much. He seems like a player, and if you don't want to get hurt, I'd recommend you NOT to fall for him. It's as if he's trying to use you. Like if he's ever single or gets dumped, he'll go for you since he knows you'll say yes, and you'll be like a replacement for him, until he finds some other unlucky girl. I'm sorry to say, but it's as if he's trying to make you think that you two have a chance together, when he just wants you to keep hanging, so... like I said before... if he ever gets dumped, he'll have you around to use. Yes, it sounds pretty harsh and all, but I've experienced this before, and it doesn't turn out pretty. I say you should just leave him, and try to find some other guy. If you stick around, you'll get hurt, and me nor you, would want that. Sorry, to crush your chance, but you're better safe than sorry.... besides, there's enough fish in the sea, you just have to keep fishing to catch the perfect one.... :) GOOD LUCK!!!!

Answer 4

Well first, you should have one of your friends tell the guy what he keeps doing to you, that way when he finds out he won't get steamed at you.Then she'll break up with him and he'll need a shoulder to cry on and there you'll be and I'm sure if you take him somewhere alone and tell the way you feel about him then you'll be together and make sure your friends doesn't tell him. tell your friend to say that they saw him grab you up and ready to kiss you but then they turned away but still not knowing if y'all kissed or not.But make sure no one else knows the plan and make sure he backs you up in the corner. Plus she won't be hurt as much cause she dumped him, so she'll still feel pain, but she'll get over it.

Answer 5

if he is truely interested in you why is this other girl even in the picture? sounds like a typical guy wants his cake and the icing, too. Maybe you should just be blunt and ask him out, if he shys away he just flirting wayyyyy too much, but if he is interested in you he will lose the other girl. Either way at least you will know where you stand with him.

Answer 6

well you are apparently the only one who thinks you two are perfect for each other, and by the way that is just creepy I really hope you wait a year before you tell some guy that...he likes the fact that he can be with the woman HE REALLY WANTS and have you as a backup in case something happens...so if you dont mind being his second choice, stick around...

Answer 7

you back off girl! if he wants you, the only way he can have you is if it's you and only you. Nothing less should be acceptable. Smile, wish him the best, and the next time he hits on you, you tell him to come back when he's single; that you're not interested before then. . .

trust me it will work. if they're not meant to be he'll be back - but not if you let him take advantage of you while he's "seeing" someone else.

Answer 8

You should leave him alone. It may hurt to hear it but if he were really interested in you he would be with you.
Now take your focus off of him and open your eyes to all the other guys you are missing out on because you've been so wrapped up in this one. blessings

Answer 9

I'm guessing your not very old, and if you don't know the answer to that "problem" I think you should wait a while (like a few years) before you consider getting into a relationship. No offence.

Answer 10

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