His fiance' lives in Austraila and she's not here with him but I'm here every day with him. He has also fallen in love with me so he says and yet he won't call it off with her. She keeps postponing the wedding and moving over here. First it was supposed to only be like a couple of months now it's going to be like a year to a year and a half. Please give me advise as to what I should do.
2006-12-11 09:39:44 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dont be a home wrecker
2006-12-11 09:41:48 · answer #1 · answered by confusedbrowngirl 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
If he loved u, he would call off his engagement.
But doesnt seem like he is interested in calling off the engagement. So, get the message and dont let him play with u and ur life. Leave him and move on.
2006-12-11 09:48:26 · answer #2 · answered by arwa 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Leave him alone! You should respect that he is engaged. If he doesn't want to call off the wedding thats probably cause he loves her. He's just trying to keep you around in case he gets horny before he sees his fiance. Don't trust him.
MEN ARE DOGS
2006-12-11 09:42:58 · answer #3 · answered by ((♥)) 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
First off, this situation isn't good at all, it is bad. Second, you should break this off imediately! Tell him to choose, if he wants to be with you, then he will. But it also seems that he is using you, because of the fact that he doesn't want to call it off with his fiance. Wise up.
2006-12-11 09:43:33 · answer #4 · answered by Light Bringer 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Not worth the endless pain and pining to be together.
He could be leading you on to fulfil his own needs and then when his girl comes back he forgets you.
Perhaps just leave it and wait and see what happens when his girl actually does come back and they sort themselves out. Or just don't wait and find someone else that's not attached.
2006-12-11 09:46:23 · answer #5 · answered by lyssaria 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, you can either resign to being a mistress in this guy's life, or start offering the snatch up to someone else. This guy is showing no respect to you or his fiancé.
2006-12-11 09:46:30 · answer #6 · answered by Kyle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
back off because if he loved you he would have been honest with her and ended the marriage......He may be using you to pass the time until she gets over here.......
I would tell him he needs to choose between us and tell you which one he wants... The longer you wait the harder it will be to deal with this problem...
The simplist answers to questions are to just talk to the person you are having feelings and misunderstanding about.. Good Luck
2006-12-11 09:44:29 · answer #7 · answered by evil_fallen_angel41 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Take a step back from him, now another, then another..........if he has a fiance he won't call it off with, he's just not that into you. You can do better than second fiddle to someone else!
2006-12-11 09:42:53 · answer #8 · answered by alysinvunderland 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Trust me on this one, this will only lead to heart-ache..... find a single bloke that can give you a one to one relationship. Someone that will really care for you and not lead you on. Ditch the sleaze ball as fast as you can.. Heart-ache is a bitter pill to swallow, and all your doingis boosting the rat's ego. He care's for himself NOT you. He WILL NOT leave his partner no matter WHAT sleazy lines he tells you
2006-12-11 11:58:37 · answer #9 · answered by susie 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
get away from him, you don't want to be caught up in an ugly situation..tell him the best thing for him to do is to go love and be happy with his proposed wife
2006-12-11 09:45:27 · answer #10 · answered by Daniel C 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋