Heres the problem. Please read details this is very important to me..?
Ok... so I'm 15. This girl I like, I really like her. I spilled my guts to her a few months ago, and sha said she didnt like me like that. But, she emalied me a month later, and said she really misses the friendship. Well, heres the thing, We've been friends since childhood, shes 13, and just learning the ropes. I know the ropes, Ive liked many girls but none like her. Well, my bestfriend, knows how i feel, he knows how much I like her, and that i would do nething in this world to be with her. But heres the problem. He told me like a week ago, that he wont go out with her, cuz he knows how much i like her. Well as of yesterday, there goin out. And it hurts soooo bad. Like none ever before. I couldnt sleep last night, because i couldnt get it off my mind .. what should i DO?
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5 hours ago
I mean its kinda hard just to drop them. Because they both go to my church, and I see them both all the time, and on top of that, hes my neighbor
2006-12-11 09:34:33 · 8 answers · asked by robinson z 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That was wrong for both of them to do that to you because they both knew your fellings . They both played you . That's wrong .YOU don't need them . You are young you have your whole life to meet that specail someone . Trust ME I KNOW !!!
2006-12-11 09:52:33 · answer #1 · answered by lola 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, the thing of it is, she doesn't like you like that. You may be too close of friends that she doesn't want to risk losing the friendship there. Another thing too, is that although she is with your best friend, and it is very tough, you just have to accept it and move on. You are young, so be patient, and something greater will come along. So don't spend day and night freting about a girl that only wants to be friends, let it be, and live your life.
2006-12-11 09:40:41 · answer #2 · answered by Light Bringer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you've got a crush on a girl but somebody beat you to the punch.
Stay cool, you might get a second bite of the cherry.
2006-12-11 09:41:24 · answer #3 · answered by Panama Jack 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u may not be able to just drop it but you have to let go & move on!time will help.u can't stop them from being together.ur friend prob didn't want to hurt you but they must have decided to follow their hearts.
it must hurt but don't throw away ur friendship...ur only 15,there are so many more fish in the ocean.been there.
all the best
2006-12-11 09:41:02 · answer #4 · answered by Cooxie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats a hard situation. all i can say is try not to think about it. when ur around them dont let it affect u and make sure they see it not affecting u. obiously they arent worth a friendship if they did something that cold.
2006-12-11 09:40:57 · answer #5 · answered by raelynn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u should seriously talk to her cause it sounds like u would die for her if u have to so come out and tell her how u feel. and your friend should feel really terrible for what he did. knowing u liked her
2006-12-11 09:39:12 · answer #6 · answered by lol 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Complicated situation... If you are a survivor get one on him blow it out of prop... that way you save one friendship..
2006-12-11 09:42:00 · answer #7 · answered by Saddam 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, you should tie both of them down, tie her titties to his forehead and slap both of them repeatedly
2006-12-11 09:40:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋