There's this guy i like and everything was going good last week. He imed me everyday and he said hi to me twice in school on friday between classes. But he hasn't signed on since last thursday. Well he did sign on for half an hour yesterday at night but he signed off w/o talking to me. And today at school he didn't say hi to me when we saw eachother in the halls. He might have not seen me but i don't know. Can someone please tell me if i should get over him or if i'm looking too much into this? please help and im sorry if i sound pathetic.
2006-12-11 09:33:08 · 9 answers · asked by val 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
aww...
maybe he has too much going on... ???
try talking to him and ask "Hey, why didnt ya say hi yesterday?" and see what he says.
Its ok for you to make the 1st 'move' so to speak; you should IM him and say HI sometime! =)
Dont be afraid...you will regret not asking/being afraid...
and you will always wonder "what if?"
Take it from me, and talk to him. Get to know him better and take it from there. K? =) Good Luck!
2006-12-11 09:37:26 · answer #1 · answered by da_nikkster 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't sound pathetic at all. I think everyone has been there and most women twice as often as we would have ever hoped. It sounds obvious and simple, and I bet you've heard it a million times, but the best way to get a guy's attention is to - not play hard to get - but just not be bothered one way or the other.
If he's worth being interested in, then he'll be interested in you, for all the right reasons. It's terrifying that I sound like all these women who I never believed when I was dating, but "scary but true", they were right.
It's really so easy looking back. I understand it sounds completely unbelievable now, but really try. If he's interested, he'll be back, if he's not, he's not the one for you anyway.
2006-12-11 09:42:43 · answer #2 · answered by f1addict 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is best to observe his actions as well as to listen to your gut feelings before rushing into judgment. Secondly use your head and not your feelings when you decide what road to take after you have spoken to him.
There may be some legitimate reason why he is behaving like this towards you. Last on the list is to examine your self to make sure that you didn't do any thing in a subtle way to him that is causing him to treat you like that.
2006-12-11 09:55:45 · answer #3 · answered by Premio 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U r reading too much into it.
Focus on ur school now. There can be many reasons(that may not even involve u) why the boy didnt contact u as he did before. Just chill and live ur life.
2006-12-11 09:41:52 · answer #4 · answered by arwa 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
have you had a face to face conversation with this guy? if not why not ask him out for lunch or something? then you know if he is interested or not. then you can get rid of the anxiety of whether he is going to say hi or not.
2006-12-11 09:38:51 · answer #5 · answered by holliente 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that he got over u and now is trying to avoid u. u should serioulsy get over him cause if he doesn't want to talk to u than he should atleast be a man and talk to u up straight.
2006-12-11 09:39:13 · answer #6 · answered by hellodivasexy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
seems like u r reading too much into this
2006-12-11 09:35:25 · answer #7 · answered by ryanisalifestyle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u are taking it to serisly, he proply just didnt see u. he likes u i think
2006-12-11 09:37:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go talk to him, chicken. if he isn't cool, blow him off forever.
2006-12-11 09:37:44 · answer #9 · answered by deeply interested 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋