I am a teenager and I have tried to find love. I used to want love, but now I don't. I didn't ask any girls out, because I would look like a fool. And I don't start conversations with girls. I am good looking, but if they don't approach me, it's their loss, not mine. Love is too soft and I could live without it. I will be laughing the day my friends have their own families and have to deal with all kinds of problems when I will be living by myself, and happy, without problems. Love is useless. Everyone would view me as weak if I was I love, and my parents would make stupid comments like, "Oh, that's so cute" or some crap like that. All stress, nothing good about it. I hate little kids and dealing with girls' problems.
2006-12-11 09:31:47 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I STRONGLY AGREE WITH YOU LOVE IS FOR THE WEAK
2006-12-11 09:34:35 · answer #1 · answered by Luis 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your remarks reflect your maturity! You too have been both younger and smaller than you are now! I wonder how you would have reacted towards being hated as you have stated.
Too, what is this issue of you dealing with girl problems? Are girls coming to you for emotional and mental health issues?
Why do you feel that you have to tell the world that you are good looking? Do you really believe the world cares?
Sir, stop trying to make life happen, or to reason out all solutions according to your precepts. People in their 70s, with grandchildren do not have any better understanding that you do!
Nature did not intend for males to understand the female mind, because she knew that the male would try to control her even more than he tries to do now.
Never feel that a female loses out because she does not know you, there are 500,000,000 more males out there, trying to back her into a corner, she will always have choices, too, so will you!
2006-12-11 09:49:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
At the moment you are right but honestly you will find love coz it just happens, maybe not now but it will happen. even though you think that living by your self is going to be happy and no problems, i bet that you will also feel lonely too. unless you are going to be a player but you will still be lonely one day too. Seeing all your mates with familys going to cool places that you wish you could have gone, it really does change the way that you think when you got a family. some1 that relies on you that cares about you, well i hope that you have the best life that you want and good luck
2006-12-11 09:40:18 · answer #3 · answered by Bex 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, soon you will change your story. Love eventually finds us all, It nabs us when we least expect it, then like the change of wind it drops us as if we were a plague. In turn hate burns through you and regret. You never want to know love again after that.
You are still young and will experience, lots of heart ache. Remember one thing it will catch you. It is simply one of those things can't be avoided.
Good Luck
2006-12-11 09:40:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's me again.
You know the real reason you don't believe in love. It has nothing to do with the girls or your parents. You don't feel worthy of being loved. You have no self worth. You don't understand why someone would love you.
These are all feelings I know very well. You can overcome them.
I hope you take my advice and get counseling soon.
I wish you well:)
2006-12-11 11:29:15 · answer #5 · answered by Kim 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most humans were meant for company. Meaning that eventually you will want someone around to share with. Share your life, work, emotions, your bed even. You are still young, when the time comes you'll know it. For now, don't sweat the small stuff.
2006-12-11 09:37:17 · answer #6 · answered by AMC615 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love is an emotions and it is not something you can look for, you fall in love when you find someone that makes you feel more than what you think you are, special, cared for, and you will know what the point is when you are at that moment in life.
2006-12-11 09:35:11 · answer #7 · answered by pay 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ultimately, the point of love is procreation.
However, the bigger point of love is to have a shipmate on the voyage of life.
2006-12-11 09:35:03 · answer #8 · answered by Captain Moe 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow someone is bitter now arnt we. stop being so dramatic and shut up. your still a teenager and have probably been rejected one time to many. get over it and stop complaining.
2006-12-11 09:36:38 · answer #9 · answered by Atllas 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋